anonymous12345
Senior Don Juan
37 years old, 170 cm tall, weight 65.7 kg. I got an athletic build, abs contours but I wouldn’t say ripped, though it was close before Christmas.
I generally run 20-30 km per week, and have two gym sessions doing strength. I want to increase my upper body muscle mass. I dead lift 100 kg 8x3 reps, but typically I do 90 kg 8x4 reps. 50x2 push ups. Other than that I do free weights for arms, I’m probably a bit unstructured. Had to stop squatting after an injury with free weights last summer, have kind of healed now.
I have been doing the same regime for many years, but haven’t seen any improvement. My theory is I eat too little, and lift too comfortably. I get tired by my grind/life, so don’t have energy for lifting hard, it’s more of a wind-down for me. Don’t know what to do about that. I work out for mental well being (it works) and I can reduce cardio if that would be advantageous for muscle gain. I have been doing a lot of cardio in my life, social dancing. For this semester I again got access to a decent cantina, I currently eat a lot of vegetables and some meat because “I think it’s good.”
So, the question is, what to do? I think I value being lean/athletic more than looking “strong”, so am a bit concerned about becoming fat if I have to eat a lot. Those that have a lot of muscles tends to have fat too. I want to remain looking lean/ripped, but gain muscles. Some succeed at this, but perhaps it’s rare.
One problem with fitness is the buttload of info out there. Sites, social media, regular media, forums (hello) and the guys at the gym that always have advice (hello again). I don’t know how to navigate this.
I don’t look for the latest fad or whatever, I want something solid, proven that most likely works and I don’t care if it’s dead boring and traditional.
I wonder:
I generally run 20-30 km per week, and have two gym sessions doing strength. I want to increase my upper body muscle mass. I dead lift 100 kg 8x3 reps, but typically I do 90 kg 8x4 reps. 50x2 push ups. Other than that I do free weights for arms, I’m probably a bit unstructured. Had to stop squatting after an injury with free weights last summer, have kind of healed now.
I have been doing the same regime for many years, but haven’t seen any improvement. My theory is I eat too little, and lift too comfortably. I get tired by my grind/life, so don’t have energy for lifting hard, it’s more of a wind-down for me. Don’t know what to do about that. I work out for mental well being (it works) and I can reduce cardio if that would be advantageous for muscle gain. I have been doing a lot of cardio in my life, social dancing. For this semester I again got access to a decent cantina, I currently eat a lot of vegetables and some meat because “I think it’s good.”
So, the question is, what to do? I think I value being lean/athletic more than looking “strong”, so am a bit concerned about becoming fat if I have to eat a lot. Those that have a lot of muscles tends to have fat too. I want to remain looking lean/ripped, but gain muscles. Some succeed at this, but perhaps it’s rare.
One problem with fitness is the buttload of info out there. Sites, social media, regular media, forums (hello) and the guys at the gym that always have advice (hello again). I don’t know how to navigate this.
I don’t look for the latest fad or whatever, I want something solid, proven that most likely works and I don’t care if it’s dead boring and traditional.
I wonder:
- Who should I listen to? What source should I trust?
- How to push myself (more) in lifting despite being mentally tired? Running 10 km is no problem, it's great relaxation.
- What shall I eat and how much?
- How shall I approach how I should exercise? What exercises, how should I progress? If there’s some app or particular website/book I’ll appreciate tip.
- Should I reduce cardio?
- How do I gain muscles without getting a belly etc.?