God damn it, I'm still pissed off!
Last night, I was at a bar. I had come by myself. I ordered 2 beers just to loosen up and work up the courage to approach a girl. I'm trying to build "bar-game." I eventually started chatting to this amazingly hot, short, dark skinned, black haired girl. We were really hitting it off.
She followed me to the bar when I went to order my third and final drink. I tell the bartender I wanted 1 more beer and to close my tab. Hes brings me my beer and my tab, but on the tab, there's charges for 5 beers and a vodka shot.
I call him over and told him how I had only ordered 3 drinks, and he started to contest it. He said the people "in my group" had ordered 2 more beers and a vodka shot, but I hadn't come in a group, I came on my own. He then said "look, stop being an ******* to me, I'll stop being an ******* to you, or I'm going to have to call security."
I didn't blow my lid or flip out, but I had to raise my voice simply because there were a ton of people and blaring music, and I was still trying to explain to hi, that I had only purchased 3 beers, and that I wasn't going to pay for 3 other drinks that I hadn't ordered.
Eventually, the girl I was chatting to leaned in and said "It's alright I got it," and slipped the bartender a couple of bills. I told her, "it's alright, don't pay for their mistake," but she insisted.
I thought this would be a good sign, but after she paid the guy and he went away, she just immediately said "I have to go." I said "So soon?" She said "Yeah, but it was really nice talking to you."
I told her, "Look, thank you again. Really, you shouldn't have had to pay for their mistake. But how about I make it up to you sometime? Let me get that number."
But she said "Umm... maybe I'll run into here again next time." I said "I don't think I'll be coming back here again. You got facebook?" She said yes, but that she'll facebook me. Today, no facebook request yet.
So I feel pretty disappointed and pissed off. Has anyone been in this situation? What should I have done?
Last night, I was at a bar. I had come by myself. I ordered 2 beers just to loosen up and work up the courage to approach a girl. I'm trying to build "bar-game." I eventually started chatting to this amazingly hot, short, dark skinned, black haired girl. We were really hitting it off.
She followed me to the bar when I went to order my third and final drink. I tell the bartender I wanted 1 more beer and to close my tab. Hes brings me my beer and my tab, but on the tab, there's charges for 5 beers and a vodka shot.
I call him over and told him how I had only ordered 3 drinks, and he started to contest it. He said the people "in my group" had ordered 2 more beers and a vodka shot, but I hadn't come in a group, I came on my own. He then said "look, stop being an ******* to me, I'll stop being an ******* to you, or I'm going to have to call security."
I didn't blow my lid or flip out, but I had to raise my voice simply because there were a ton of people and blaring music, and I was still trying to explain to hi, that I had only purchased 3 beers, and that I wasn't going to pay for 3 other drinks that I hadn't ordered.
Eventually, the girl I was chatting to leaned in and said "It's alright I got it," and slipped the bartender a couple of bills. I told her, "it's alright, don't pay for their mistake," but she insisted.
I thought this would be a good sign, but after she paid the guy and he went away, she just immediately said "I have to go." I said "So soon?" She said "Yeah, but it was really nice talking to you."
I told her, "Look, thank you again. Really, you shouldn't have had to pay for their mistake. But how about I make it up to you sometime? Let me get that number."
But she said "Umm... maybe I'll run into here again next time." I said "I don't think I'll be coming back here again. You got facebook?" She said yes, but that she'll facebook me. Today, no facebook request yet.
So I feel pretty disappointed and pissed off. Has anyone been in this situation? What should I have done?
