My bud from work (going on 13 years, he was one of the few to call me while I was in the hospital after a major unexpected live-or-die surgery), about 8-9 years ago, married a single-mom (son who's 7 or 8 I forget) woman 7 years older than him (so now she's 47 and he's 39 with now-greying hair). He's a very good-looking guy (no-homo), but...........he's short (probably 5'6" maybe 5'5"). I remember him being so excited when he was getting married those many years ago. He tells me today that his step-son (which he deems his son as well) is 15 and will soon be out of the house. He has no offspring and his wife at 47 really can't have anymore, so he's there for the sex, not to be "alone," and prestige or social clout (water-fountain chit-chat). To each their own, eh, but I think he may have been able to do better, but sure these are DIRE, trying times in which we live. Here I am 6'2" in almost magnificent shape and financially very sound, yet I do not want the things he does. I've currently been seeing a 27 yr old who could give me children. She's having to Work to get in my world. It's all up to her, cause I ain't pursuin Sheeeeeit.