In your past how much money you estimated you wasted on women?
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Every time I get into a relationship, I'm unable to put away as much in savings. One year I saved nothing and that sucked.
Even if you're careful and have a chick you can go dutch with often, it still adds up. In my last 4 month relationship (dutched often) I spent $ 2000- 3000 I wouldn't have other wise. A good chunk being a 4 day Vegas trip.
Hookers or good girls, women cost you.
Even if you're careful and have a chick you can go dutch with often, it still adds up. In my last 4 month relationship (dutched often) I spent $ 2000- 3000 I wouldn't have other wise. A good chunk being a 4 day Vegas trip.
Hookers or good girls, women cost you.
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
not nearly as much as Drugs booze and gambling!!!!
Ive cut out the bets and drugs now and dont go out on the beers very often, but women have been a minor blip in comparison!
Ive cut out the bets and drugs now and dont go out on the beers very often, but women have been a minor blip in comparison!
Upside
Senior Don Juan
Not too much money as I know where to put the foot down, but a bit too much time. I wouldn't say "wasted", but certainly there are moments where my time would have been spent better elsewhere.
Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
I spend more when I'm with a girl, just because we're out generally doing things that cost money (ex: movie). I consider it worthwhile money spent.
When I was a total AFC, I bombed the same amounts of money, typically doubled up as I'd pay for the chick, too, for no results at all.
Probably a good three thousand or so. Maybe more, I'm not going to count it all up..
When I was a total AFC, I bombed the same amounts of money, typically doubled up as I'd pay for the chick, too, for no results at all.
Probably a good three thousand or so. Maybe more, I'm not going to count it all up..
Not a lot. A few dinners, maybe 5 movies. Less than $100 between many women. I invested millions worth emotionally. And by invested, I mean wasted.
I was very traditional and romantic - due to my proper, non-american upbringing. Had the whole fairytale love bull**** going on. But, it never got me anywhere, and I WAS very good looking, socially adept, had a nice car, solid personality, a backbone, and all that ****. Basically, the best of both worlds - like women SAY they want. All lies. They didnt want a hot good guy to marry, or whatever bull****. They just wanted ****, and actually got turned OFF by romantic, relationship / gentleman type ****. Gutter *****s, really. Their attraction shot up 600% once I finally had enough, lost interest, hated their guts, and treated them like garbage. Their attraction was also super high in the very beginning - when I wasnt very interested - only to plummet into the negatives when I *gasp*... wait for it... the mother of all evil... here it comes... get ready... showed interest back. OH, THE HORROR! Anything but that! SAVE ME JESUS!
Despite *****ing non-stop about *******s who used them for sex - thats EXACTLY what they responded to (and were themselves). They would actually, literally, seriously ***** about the same thing they went after. At the same time. Once they knew I was interested - it was game over. They would ***** about everyone who DIDNT want them, and treated those who did like ****. Pot and the ****ing kettle. They were addicted to the chase, had low self esteem, and ****ing **** **** **** ***** ***** I had the worst standards in the world.
This is why its so vital to pay attention to everything, and assume or believe nothing. Dont make things bigger than they are, or try changing anyone. And DONT sympathize with the damsel. Whatever they tell you is who they are, what they respond to, who they associate with, and what they feel they deserve. The whole truth is right in front of you. All that **** they reveal as theyre *****ing... Its all them.
But that **** can really **** up your views. Dont try saving troubled people, or getting caught up in their mess. Accept them just as they are RIGHT NOW - not how they used to be before they got "hurt" and betrayed (which, by the way, was all their fault for choosing *******s).
****ing ranting again ****.
**** my life.
:crazy:
I was very traditional and romantic - due to my proper, non-american upbringing. Had the whole fairytale love bull**** going on. But, it never got me anywhere, and I WAS very good looking, socially adept, had a nice car, solid personality, a backbone, and all that ****. Basically, the best of both worlds - like women SAY they want. All lies. They didnt want a hot good guy to marry, or whatever bull****. They just wanted ****, and actually got turned OFF by romantic, relationship / gentleman type ****. Gutter *****s, really. Their attraction shot up 600% once I finally had enough, lost interest, hated their guts, and treated them like garbage. Their attraction was also super high in the very beginning - when I wasnt very interested - only to plummet into the negatives when I *gasp*... wait for it... the mother of all evil... here it comes... get ready... showed interest back. OH, THE HORROR! Anything but that! SAVE ME JESUS!
Despite *****ing non-stop about *******s who used them for sex - thats EXACTLY what they responded to (and were themselves). They would actually, literally, seriously ***** about the same thing they went after. At the same time. Once they knew I was interested - it was game over. They would ***** about everyone who DIDNT want them, and treated those who did like ****. Pot and the ****ing kettle. They were addicted to the chase, had low self esteem, and ****ing **** **** **** ***** ***** I had the worst standards in the world.
This is why its so vital to pay attention to everything, and assume or believe nothing. Dont make things bigger than they are, or try changing anyone. And DONT sympathize with the damsel. Whatever they tell you is who they are, what they respond to, who they associate with, and what they feel they deserve. The whole truth is right in front of you. All that **** they reveal as theyre *****ing... Its all them.
But that **** can really **** up your views. Dont try saving troubled people, or getting caught up in their mess. Accept them just as they are RIGHT NOW - not how they used to be before they got "hurt" and betrayed (which, by the way, was all their fault for choosing *******s).
****ing ranting again ****.
**** my life.
:crazy:
Packers2010
Master Don Juan
i'd say EASY less then 500$ maybe even less then $300
i conciser myself lucky.
though i did sell my xbox to my ex a few years ago. she gave me half the money. then a little later things started going south so i kept hassling her for the money. a month after i got the money she random txted me. tell me she got robbed and my old xbox got stolen. LOL! her mother though it was me? LOL LOL LOL.. was funny
i conciser myself lucky.
though i did sell my xbox to my ex a few years ago. she gave me half the money. then a little later things started going south so i kept hassling her for the money. a month after i got the money she random txted me. tell me she got robbed and my old xbox got stolen. LOL! her mother though it was me? LOL LOL LOL.. was funny
Mike32ct
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9 years in this game...maybe 2k a year for going out.
Do not be too easy. If you are too easy to get, she will not want you. If you are too easy to keep, she will lose interest in you. If you are too easy to control, she will not respect you.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
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What a remarkably unhealthy post!!
NobodyCares1
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I've thought about this recently and to be honest since I began developing my game I haven't spent much more money on girls than I would spend on two or three nights out with my friends. Of course it's also because I'm young and I have never been in a LTR. My longest relationship lasted about a month and a half and I haven't spent a single coin on that girl.
But the girls that I go out with don't even want me to spend money on them, every time I suggested we go for a coffee or a beer or anything together, they refused and said that they'd much rather go for a walk. So I continued to just take them for a walk on a date, which also works best for me, since I can escalate much better.
I guess it's also thanks to the region where I live, there are still some good nice girls around. They are rare but I guess it's much better than in some other areas around the world. The girl I've met recently even suggested that she would take me for a beer and pay for it. A lot of them have no problems taking me somewhere and paying for me, though I almost always refuse becaue I feel too femine then.
But the girls that I go out with don't even want me to spend money on them, every time I suggested we go for a coffee or a beer or anything together, they refused and said that they'd much rather go for a walk. So I continued to just take them for a walk on a date, which also works best for me, since I can escalate much better.
I guess it's also thanks to the region where I live, there are still some good nice girls around. They are rare but I guess it's much better than in some other areas around the world. The girl I've met recently even suggested that she would take me for a beer and pay for it. A lot of them have no problems taking me somewhere and paying for me, though I almost always refuse becaue I feel too femine then.