In Praise of 42-yr old Women

[Tictac]

http://www.esquire.com/blogs/culture/42-year-old-women

The kiddies are welcome to their ingenues. Pretty wrapping, not much in the package.

I love women with a few miles on them that know how to live.

This Esquire article is pretty good.

 

[zekko]

Tictac, I doubt you'll find too many posters here agreeing with you on this one. I think you have to be 63, or at least 53, to appreciate older women.

I disagree with the article where it says feminism is what has allowed these 42 year old women to be desireable, however.

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear TicTac,
You are letting the side down Brother...do you really want all those Hvorny young Studs competing with you?.For me an experienced young 42 ish Woman who hasn't had her Oats for a while,would be Winter with Wine...But just let's keep this to ourselves OK?

 

[VikingKing]

I mean I would fck her. But lets see her, no make up, naked next to a 25 or even 30 yearold woman who took care of herself. Oh, and with out Photoshop. No plastic surgery.

Of course everything is relative.

 

[Zarky]

I think older women are good for the following things:

-Giving young men a lesson in what a highly sexual woman should be like.
-Giving guys who want easy lays.. easy lays.

I think that all guys in their 20s should hook up with a woman in her 40s once. I don't mean just a one night stand (though that's fine too) but actually having her as a "lover."

This relationship will be ultimately doomed, as it should be, but it will give the young guy some "behind the scenes" footage of what women are really like which will serve him throughout his life with future dealings with chicks.

Of course the chance that the young guy takes is that he hooks up with an insane one. Hopefully he'll get one who knows the deal and wants to teach a young guy the ways of love rather than **** him over emotionally.

 

[Tictac]

Scar & Zec,

Most of the pups here couldn't handle a real woman.

I get proof of that with some of the women I see that laugh at their patheticism.

 

[il_randyb]

Ok so there are some 42 year old women that look great but lets be honest, most of them are not movie stars and don't have a fashion team to work with them. Most them have teenage kids that have dragged them down or worthless husbands and years of torment.

The real beauty of a 40+ female is how she carries herself. The few that still have a sexy figure, a pretty face AND on top of all of that know how to be a lady are the ones I lust after!

 

[logicallefty]

I wouldn't put a lot of effort into gaming her but if she crawled in my bed I wouldn't kick her out.

 

[zekko]

I mean I would fck her. But lets see her, no make up, naked next to a 25 or even 30 yearold woman who took care of herself. Oh, and with out Photoshop. No plastic surgery.

I think you are missing Tictac's point. "Pretty wrapping, not much in the package". Yes, most younger girls have firmer, perkier, more elastic bodies. But how interesting is a 19 year old girl as a person? It's like Bella in the Twilight movies, why is she so sought after? She's just a plain, rather boring girl right out of high school. She may also be a lousy lay.

Women with some life experience (and hopefully, some learned humility) have the potential at least, to be more interesting. And many of them have retained more of their physical charms than you might think. As I said though, you probably have to be older yourself to appreciate this. You're not likely to think that way when you're 26.

The real beauty of a 40+ female is how she carries herself. The few that still have a sexy figure, a pretty face AND on top of all of that know how to be a lady are the ones I lust after!

That's true, some of the most feminine women I know are older. Maybe it's just a matter of the later they are born, the more masculine they are raised to be.

 

[Tictac]

Zek,

Spot on! The life experience is the big one. The depth, the breadth... all of it gives grownup women an appreciation and focus that kittens don't have. All women seem to know what they don't want. These women know what they DO want and so don't waste time.

And while I'm not looking for a high N, sex with 'a woman in full' is something ingenues and their pursuers can only dream about.

 

[VladPatton]

If you have to think longer than 0.2 seconds on whether or not you should bang Sofia Vergara or Carla Gugino you really need to sit down and think about your sexual orientation. Yes, they're Hollywood actresses, but a lot of day to day women here in NYC look phenomenal for over 35 these days. Bodies and faces can be tampered with and adjusted. It's whatever's in their heads that scare the ever living fvck outta me lol.

 

[Zunder]

Are Tictac, Zekko, and Zarky all the same person? Anyway, it's a triple Mangina treat when these three get together on MM forum.

 

[Tictac]

Yawn.

You are a neophyte.

Live with it.

 

[zekko]

Are Tictac, Zekko, and Zarky all the same person? Anyway, it's a triple Mangina treat when these three get together on MM forum.

The only mangina here is you, you pvssy troll.
Zarky is an avowed pump and dumper, while I live with my girlfriend since I won't get married. I don't know Tictac that well, but he is 63 and can say and do whatever he wants. Have some respect for your elders.

 

[Sik]

Out of all the women I've had, one of the best was in her 40's. She would never tell me her exact age, and I had enough class not to ask.

She was incredibly sexually talented and only matched by one other girl in her 20's.

The conversation was also good. It's refreshing being able to have a glass of wine, discuss esoteric topics and then get to screwing. Afterwards, she toweled off, dressed and left, as quick as she came in.

That's how it should be.

 

[VikingKing]

Well. If it makes you guys feel better.... It's ok to fvck 40 year old women. It's also ok to believe they are more desirable.

 

[020204]

There are still desireable women in this age bracket and many of them were often plain Janes growing up, or the rare few who haven't rode the carosoul. Women who have maintained a good level of fitness and dress well and don't have children also look good at this age.

 

[Tictac]

Gee, thanks noob.

I feel better now.

Sarc/off

 

[sodbuster]

Well, those women look good. BUT, I dated a recent divorcee {when she'd lost the weight for the hunt}. We broke up and she's gained back the 40 or 50 lbs she'd lost.... her "gift" of "more of me to love" for her 14 yr younger husband

 

[backbreaker]

the entire point of this site is to game women. not game 20 year old women. not game 25-30 year old women.

i will never ever knock another dude's hustle. anyone who does is quite frankly a chump. whatever you are happy sticking your **** into, more power to you and this site is supposed to help you with that.



This ****ing right / wrong / black / white thinking man come on guys htis is **** women do. we're better than this. yes, there are some qualities about older women that are more diserable. yes, there are some qualities about younger women that are more diserable. younger women are not BETTEr. older women are not BETTER.


i mean, even if we agreed that.. zekko.. could not get a 25 year old woman, which i don't think is the case, but let's say it was.. who the **** cares lol? this isn't a **** mesasuring contest. if zekko could not get a 25 year old woman and he knew he could not get a 25 year old woman, i applaud him for being realistic in his expectations.


lol when you go to the honda dealership and see new people buying cars you don't see dudes *****ing beucase htye can't buy a new mercedes, they are happy they are getting a new car. then the same dudes sit here, and ***** about women having unrealistic standards. look in the ****ing mirror.


i look at my 27 year old friend / buddy girl. here's a pic of her by the way just so i can put in perspective what i'm talking about


http://i781.photobucket.com/albums/yy99/ghostzapper/unnamed2_zpscf8945ed.jpg



pretty damn cute. 27 years old.


First of all that body is not her natrual body she works at it, very very hard. eats clean, hits the gym 5 days a week. works her ass off. so every 27 year old isn't gonna look like this . lol note this is the same girl that some dorks called a tomboy about a few months ago becuase she was in gym attire.



now, here's a picture of my 37 year old wife. she's gonna kill me for this but **** it lol

http://i781.photobucket.com/albums/yy99/ghostzapper/millie2_zps8a0633bc.jpg


http://i781.photobucket.com/albums/yy99/ghostzapper/millie2_zps98a1ab18.jpg


my wife is 37 years old. she works at it as well.


i posted the pictures not to show off, but to put a point in perspective. there is not very much difference between my wife and the 27 year old. Also my wife just got back from the gym and has no makeup on and the 27 year old is dolled up about to go to a bachlerette party.


I just wanted to refute the notion that if you aren't ****ing a 25 year old you're ****ing a land whale or anything. my wife's body is in pertine condition. better than mine honestly. but by a lot but better. she's in better shape then me and she's 6 years older than I am.


now here is the thing. 27 year old girl is pretty f'n cute. however, i see her all the time without being that dolled up and while she's still cute you can take a solid 1.5-2 points off. at that point, its' pretty much a wash. also, my wife is more laid back, probably becuase she doesn't have to worry about **** lol but still, she's not as serious about everything like the 27 year old is. 27 year old called me damn near in tears a week ago becuase she cheated on her diet and had (gasp) pasta lol. my wife in the middle of the day will say **** this **** and open / kill a bottle of wine for ****s and giggles.


there is in fact something to be said about a woman who has been around the block and isn't in such a hurry to do eveything. I find that sexy /attractive.


but more than that, i find attractive, what my wife finds attractive. I woulid not be married to my wife if i wren't in shape / good looking, but that's not why we are married. she likes that fact that I'm ambitious and that I will work. she likes the fact that I have my **** together. I'll party every now and then but she finds that attractive that i don't want tg o out every night and party i want to work and be about my family. the 27 year old's boyfriend is a pizza delivery guy lol. that LIVES in the gym.

while i'm in shape, I will never LIVE in the gym. I run a business. Now, the fact that I have game, makes up for alot of it, but still yhou can't change a woman's pure instincts and the 27 year old girl is still really about a 19-20 year old girl, though she oes have her **** together, dating wise she basically like her boyfriend because he doesn't hit her and he's hot lol.


my point in all that being, could i date the 27 year old? probably. but why even bust my ass to do so when my wife / older women who keep themselves in shape are just as hot, and actually respect what i bring to the table? the 27 year old is a good 4-5 ayears from really understanding what i've accomplished and what i have to offer. at 27 years old she still thinks in the bak of her head that she / her boyfriend pizza guy is somehow going to magically be able to do what i've done. it wont' be til she gets a little older to she understands "damn he did the damn thing.. AND he's handsome as **** too. he really has his **** together.. me so horny lol"


but none of this matters because just about everyone on this thread, has no chance at the 27 year old who keeps herself in shape like she does, or my wife who is 37 and keeps herself up like she does. you got to get your **** together to play on that level.



here is a pic of hte girl that brought me here 12 years ago now at 30

http://katv.images.worldnow.com/images/13840165_BG2.jpg


god damn i'm glad she LJBF'ed me lol i posted this because i know she doesn't work out. dat nose kat good lord girl do something lol.


here is the same girl.... 10 years ago

http://i781.photobucket.com/albums/yy99/ghostzapper/P1011367.jpg



here is a photo of an adult actress's website that we're building who just got a boob job and she wanted to show me her new boobs (yeah). if you watch enough porn you know who this is



http://i781.photobucket.com/albums/yy99/ghostzapper/download_zpsc1cbaef4.jpg


she just turned 34 2 weeks ago. you see how run down she looks? she loooks 44. at least.



my point being, age is not as important as how you treat yourself. I don't look 31, my wife doesn't look 37, the 27 year old doesn't look 27. but we eat healthy diets, we dont' smoke, we don't drink a lot, and we work out daily. and have for years.


kat and the actress here, dont' work out and are run down. they dont' really take care of themselves. kat looks better in person than that pic but still, she's not what she was. not close.


so the most important thing is does the woman take care of herself not the age. my wife has some 30 something year old friends that will blow the doors off just about any 22-23 year old girl you can find.