In general, you SHOULD get more success from day game

[rushing dude 123]

Okay.

Two approaches t'day:

1) I see this HB8 on the way to university. I started whistling and she turned around quickly to identify the source. Soon enough we were walking side by side and I just told her "Uhh, just wanted to say hello and that you're pretty cute!". She thanked me, and I went to my course. Definitely should skip the "uhh" part next time. I had no idea how to continue this.

2) Started talking to a chick in the photocopy room. We were talking about how the machines sucked and bla bla bla. She said she'd go for ice cream since it was so hot in the room... which I took as an invitation. I hit the "I got a boyfriend" wall, to which I replied "That's okay. I'm not jealous." (thanks to Jon, who holds a field report journal here, for that line... I don't know whether he took it from someone else though). I got her name and email in the end.

I found out lately how easy it is to speak to strangers. Just put on a smile and say something appropriate. Also, talk to everyone. Kids, dudes, old people, strangers (as in obviously not from your country). Soon you'll realize that chicks are just as normal as everyone else and that talking to them shouldn't be seen as going "one step further" in being a more sociable person. If you want to talk with chicks, talk with everyone. The chicks will follow. Thoughts?

Well done Maindroite, good job on doing some field reports and posting them up.

I think for the first one you should of maybe tried a more genuine approach if you were going direct. The builder (whistling) approach usually dosn't work as well as all the "yooo whats happening baby". I think if you went up to her with something like "Hey look I am just going to be honest I don't usually do this, but I thought you kind of looked interesting I can just feel a good aura about you, so I just wanted to talk to you and found out a bit more" u can then ask her name or better yet just straight out comment on something about her like "wow i really like those boots they look pretty slick where did u get them from?"...she will tell you, then just vibe it and C+F from there "uh huh uh huh I am totally in with you now seeing i talked about your shoes" lol.

The second one seemed like you put a bit more thought into it and u got to the next stage, but got the bf line. U seemed to of brushed it aside and got the email so good work, but I would try to push for a phone number seeing it's a lot easier to get the date that way. Send her an email though and see where it gets you.

I look forward to see how u get on throughout the weeks

 

[MainDroite]

Rofl! I wasn't trying to approach by whistling. I usually have a song running in my head whenever I'm walking.

 

[diabolicplans]

I'll be posting my own adventures as soon as I start, it should be this weekend.

 

[diabolicplans]

Started the day game yesterday, a girl asked for my phone number at the end of the class. We met at the Uni. Actually we exchanged numbers.

 

[schttrj]

Why the assumptions? Why aren't they in the bars and clubs? And where is "everywhere"? Does this not depend heavily on venue and in demographics of the area?

I'll openly admit that I don't necessarily see "the best-looking" and "the most quality" women of my metro area when I'm out and about in day-to-day life. Maybe I'm living in some sort of purgatory by your standards, but when I show up in, say, the gym on a weeknight or, say, the shopping mall or movie theater during a weekend day, the places aren't necessarily exactly swarmed with plethora of the greater-metro-area's hottest and most socially-adept women.

I do agree with your premise that too many people focus overly heavily on nightlife simply because they have insufficient skill when the lowered inhibitions of alcohol/drugs aren't available, though. (I've had that problem myself with regards to getting better results outside of nightlife.)

You are kinda right. Well, you WON'T find 9s and 10s that easy, whether it's day or night.

 

[JYW]

Saw this HB8 at the elevator of my dorm. My gut tells me she is definitely single.

Elevator Encounter #1
(saw her in the gym earlier with her friend)

JYW: Were you just in the gym?
HB8:Yep.
*awkward silence*
JYW: That's my floor, see ya around!
HB8: Bye!

Elevator Encounter #2
(me coming up from the gym)

HB8: Hey, do you always work out downstairs?
JYW: Yea, I have to do these knee rehab. Usually I go to the athletic centre, but downstairs gym is more convenient...yada yada yada
HB8: (Something along the lines of)Hope it's not too serious
JYW: I'll be fine. There's my floor. Cya around!


Gotta get this chick's number. It's sooo on.

 

[Krazy]

I can't PM you... or anybody to let you know how it went, but put me down for your 7 cold approaches in 7 days challenge!!