In casual conversation. She says she has a husband or bf?

[BuckMasterFlex]

What is your take?
You the man are not even hitting on the girl. Just being a decent human. Then she mentions that she taken.

 

[BuckMasterFlex]

My experience is they are putting up the defense of you can have it if your ok with the women cheating.

 

[Machine10033]

In my experience it’s all in the way she brings it up. I’ve had girls bring up something semi positive about their husband or boyfriend.... and other times they say something negative. For example at a local pub ended up sitting next to a group of girls at a bar. The girl next to me saw my meal come out and said it must be nice to be able to eat what ever you want and look like that.... I took that as a compliment and said well I’m in the hole today I did a long run, lifted and barely at so I’m starving . She then used that to bash her husband... and said I wish my husband would make an effort to get in some type of shape. I knew she was trying to let me know she wasn’t exactly happy and if I made an effort she would probably be open to cheating. I wasn’t interested and didn’t take part in bashing her husband but over the next two hours sitting there she continued to talk to me.... and made an effort to throw more shots at her husband... somehow getting in that he’s addicted to porn and can’t even get it up

Another time a chick noticed a shirt I was wearing and it was a t shirt of a popular bar at a beach town. Said omg I love “ that bar”.... I tell her it’s my favorite place when I visit there and she is smiling and tells me her and her husband go there all the time. In the process of talking to her she talks about her and her husband numerous times and refers to them eventually as we..... friendly conversation but she’s into her husband.

 

[BuckMasterFlex]

It happens to me a lot but. It ends up a turn off. Which I think in the end is the women saying dont try because I would and will.

 

[EyeBRollin]

It means -

“I don’t like you.”

 

[BuckMasterFlex]

It means -

“I don’t like you.”

Most likely. Its open for convo. But in the situation for me it doesn't seem that way. It more seems a defensive mechanism. Im not in any way giving any signals or game.

 

[BuckMasterFlex]

Im not some classic Adonis. Im just a big relatively handsome guy with some confidence because I just got laid the night before.

I had gf at 8 and all through high school when I had a gf I had girls who were my friends, which helped and hindered relationships. But gave me inside info on how a womens mind works

 

[BuckMasterFlex]

All up for debate

 

[BuckMasterFlex]

It means -

“I don’t like you.”

If your plates are telling you. You have it. I dont ignore it. I get hit on when they go to the bathroom. Or the waitress is rude to them but overly nice to me

 

[BuckMasterFlex]

Thats why im a long time lurker only here on a downswing. Vagina comes and goes and when your up your up

 

[SW15]

Most married women will be wearing a ring.

I tend to not talk to women wearing rings.

Boyfriends are different than husbands. It's generally a good idea to use a boyfriend destroyer line.

 

[BuckMasterFlex]

Example. I just ask for a drink. They say I have a bf. Stuff like that. This probably needs a member of the other sex to chime in.

 

[devilkingx2]

99.99% of the time if she mentions her relationship status as not single she's not interested.

The .01% of the time is when she only mentions it once or twice and acts like a single woman most of the time.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

The game ain't changed

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Example. I just ask for a drink. They say I have a bf. Stuff like that. This probably needs a member of the other sex to chime in.

You ask for a drink? Are you hitting on waitresses?


Most of the time when a woman mentions a boyfriend/husband, you can just retort with something like:
"I didn't ask."
"So, drinks are on him?"
"That's good, you have someone for aftercare."
"I don't want to marry you, don't worry."
"And he's been neglecting you?"
"And he doesn't allow you to flirt with strangers?"

Especially when you know some remark or question might pop up, have your favourite retort ready. Women tend to be predictable.

 

[ManlyMan]

If you are talking to a girl they usually feel you are talking to them because you want to have sex with them. Off topic if you look anywhere in there vicinity they think you want to. So they let you know they have a husband.

 

[pipeman84]

Another time a chick noticed a shirt I was wearing and it was a t shirt of a popular bar at a beach town. Said omg I love “ that bar”.... I tell her it’s my favorite place when I visit there and she is smiling and tells me her and her husband go there all the time. In the process of talking to her she talks about her and her husband numerous times and refers to them eventually as we..... friendly conversation but she’s into her husband.

I don't know man ... that's a classic cold approach technique, using something the person is wearing to start a conversation. What is a woman in love with her husband doing hitting on strangers?