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Don Juan
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Hey everyone,
Thanks for reading this....
OK so im 22, this girl ive known for about 5 years (family friend kinda deal) is 5 years younger than me, shes 17. IMO shes model status. broad is incredibly gorgeous and idk why but im just really attracted to her. so shes gonna be a senior in HS this year. (bear with me, and save the jokes please) im thinking okay nows the time to strike-b4 she gets to college and all the guys are like all over her. i have the chance now.
She is very shy kind of. shes shy but like gives off a condescending sort of preoccupied tone when your talking to her because shes insecure. her mom thinks she has probably never kissed a boy and that the first date i took her on was her first date ever. (i have no idea if thats true or not--) ANYWAYS::
I lost a bet over july 4th to her for a few bucks and i was just like well why i dont i just buy you coffeee- which became dessert. :rockon:
This was Sunday---sunday night. I thought it went well I gave off my don juan vibe, let her talk a lot, gave my input here and there but tried to make her smile a bit. i smiled a lot to help that. (no kissing or nothing just went inside to her house watched tv with her mom and left)
Okay fast forward to tuesday--no communication between sunday and tuesday---I called her tuesday night and was like hey i had fun sunday i was wondering if ya wanted to go to the beach this weekend. she says "yeah but i have to work saturday" i said "i was thinking more like friday or sunday" she says "i have to babysit friday.....but ill text you" I says okay yeah that works, sounds good. bye.
I havent texted her or nothing since tuesday (few snapchats of the dog and i but thats it, she doesnt know if its exclusive to her)
ALSO-since family friend im obviously not trying to hit it and quit it. i want this for a relationship.
I made dinner last night for my family and invited her mom over and she came for the last 30 min but i couldnt really talk to her much at all. so she got a taste of my awesome cooking haha but thats about it.
sorry for the long post.
QUESTION: how do i proceed? Wait till she texts me this weekend? she probably wont as i think she is one of those girls who "wants the boy to text first-i think"
Dont want to mess this up-but i want to get her invested like ive seen you guys saying on here and get that second date and plant one on her.
thanks gents-
Thanks for reading this....
OK so im 22, this girl ive known for about 5 years (family friend kinda deal) is 5 years younger than me, shes 17. IMO shes model status. broad is incredibly gorgeous and idk why but im just really attracted to her. so shes gonna be a senior in HS this year. (bear with me, and save the jokes please) im thinking okay nows the time to strike-b4 she gets to college and all the guys are like all over her. i have the chance now.
She is very shy kind of. shes shy but like gives off a condescending sort of preoccupied tone when your talking to her because shes insecure. her mom thinks she has probably never kissed a boy and that the first date i took her on was her first date ever. (i have no idea if thats true or not--) ANYWAYS::
I lost a bet over july 4th to her for a few bucks and i was just like well why i dont i just buy you coffeee- which became dessert. :rockon:
This was Sunday---sunday night. I thought it went well I gave off my don juan vibe, let her talk a lot, gave my input here and there but tried to make her smile a bit. i smiled a lot to help that. (no kissing or nothing just went inside to her house watched tv with her mom and left)
Okay fast forward to tuesday--no communication between sunday and tuesday---I called her tuesday night and was like hey i had fun sunday i was wondering if ya wanted to go to the beach this weekend. she says "yeah but i have to work saturday" i said "i was thinking more like friday or sunday" she says "i have to babysit friday.....but ill text you" I says okay yeah that works, sounds good. bye.
I havent texted her or nothing since tuesday (few snapchats of the dog and i but thats it, she doesnt know if its exclusive to her)
ALSO-since family friend im obviously not trying to hit it and quit it. i want this for a relationship.
I made dinner last night for my family and invited her mom over and she came for the last 30 min but i couldnt really talk to her much at all. so she got a taste of my awesome cooking haha but thats about it.
sorry for the long post.
QUESTION: how do i proceed? Wait till she texts me this weekend? she probably wont as i think she is one of those girls who "wants the boy to text first-i think"
Dont want to mess this up-but i want to get her invested like ive seen you guys saying on here and get that second date and plant one on her.
thanks gents-
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