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Girl I was dating last year comes and visits, this HB9 model type every guy looks, etc... But also foreign, conservative and ambitious. Even when drunk her mind is taking control of her emotions and she makes rational decisions.
I was NC for a couple months, and when I beak NC she's always happy to hear from me but I kept it short and simple and she was like, I'm gonna be in town, etc. And we made plans to get together. It's not the first time I went NC with her.
So she came and visit and she asked me about my goals for my personal life, while out with a few of my friends which I kind of dodged and joked around. Let's come back to that in a sec.
As for my professional life she knows I've got my **** together, I have been more than successful enough.
Anyway, I get her back to my place no problem. And while it took some effort I did get her in bed, as she wanted to sleep on the sofa.
First attempted being a little touchy, she pushed back.
Second tried giving her a back rub, which she liked and acknowledged she was stressed out.
Third, after working my way down there for a little bit, she started twitching a bit, and she tried a few times with her hand keep mine away, but I gently moved it away. One time she twitched she was like "see that's cause of you". If those were orgasms I don't think she would have resisted so much. But she also started sweating a bit and told me to go to sleep and she ultimately got up and went to the couch.
I did not talk about the past nights events in the morning, again, I've studied the dj bible hard. I was also as aggressive and didn't let my emotions show.
The one thing I said on her way out is I wanted to ask her a personal question but later. She said send her a letter.
Alright need some coaching here, where did I go wrong? And what can I do next? Yes all women have a non logical live in the moment wild side, but getting to hers is tough, she is always thinking first and maybe this is her thinking and using her slut alarm. The only think I can think of that I may have gone wrong on is not telling her my personal goals in life, she's very much a serious girl and thinking about her future married and family life. Of course telling her my personal goals true, guessed or otherwise doesn't mean I need to be committed to her for life, but is that what I'm missing to put her at ease?
I may way to message her a day or two but I want to send a short message that "Of course I have personal goals. They're relatively normal but I only share them with someone when I think they have a small chance of being part of that someday..."
Advice fella's is much appreciated.
-NG
Girl I was dating last year comes and visits, this HB9 model type every guy looks, etc... But also foreign, conservative and ambitious. Even when drunk her mind is taking control of her emotions and she makes rational decisions.
I was NC for a couple months, and when I beak NC she's always happy to hear from me but I kept it short and simple and she was like, I'm gonna be in town, etc. And we made plans to get together. It's not the first time I went NC with her.
So she came and visit and she asked me about my goals for my personal life, while out with a few of my friends which I kind of dodged and joked around. Let's come back to that in a sec.
As for my professional life she knows I've got my **** together, I have been more than successful enough.
Anyway, I get her back to my place no problem. And while it took some effort I did get her in bed, as she wanted to sleep on the sofa.
First attempted being a little touchy, she pushed back.
Second tried giving her a back rub, which she liked and acknowledged she was stressed out.
Third, after working my way down there for a little bit, she started twitching a bit, and she tried a few times with her hand keep mine away, but I gently moved it away. One time she twitched she was like "see that's cause of you". If those were orgasms I don't think she would have resisted so much. But she also started sweating a bit and told me to go to sleep and she ultimately got up and went to the couch.
I did not talk about the past nights events in the morning, again, I've studied the dj bible hard. I was also as aggressive and didn't let my emotions show.
The one thing I said on her way out is I wanted to ask her a personal question but later. She said send her a letter.
Alright need some coaching here, where did I go wrong? And what can I do next? Yes all women have a non logical live in the moment wild side, but getting to hers is tough, she is always thinking first and maybe this is her thinking and using her slut alarm. The only think I can think of that I may have gone wrong on is not telling her my personal goals in life, she's very much a serious girl and thinking about her future married and family life. Of course telling her my personal goals true, guessed or otherwise doesn't mean I need to be committed to her for life, but is that what I'm missing to put her at ease?
I may way to message her a day or two but I want to send a short message that "Of course I have personal goals. They're relatively normal but I only share them with someone when I think they have a small chance of being part of that someday..."
Advice fella's is much appreciated.
-NG
