squirrels
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Right...you see a LOT of guys making eye contact and trying to dance w/the hotties. It's nothing new and gets treated as common behavior. Works GREAT if she's already given you a "look" or other indications that she's interested, but as far as the nonresponsive girls, it just rolls off them.Originally posted by AlwaysExcel
Thanks for the response PRL!
I'm curious though. How does EC and asking her to dance overcome the pleasant indifference of girls who are used to being approached by attractive dudes in clubs and are not phased by it?
They get EC with all sorts of guys and aren't necessarily seeking it out. In fact, I'm dead sexy and I hardly ever get EC in clubs unless I wear extremely wild clothes or singlehandely show the dance floor what's REALLY going on! LOL!
Of course, there are methods to force eye contact....
Also, these girls get asked to dance a lot. So what motivates them to dance with you when they could dance with a dozen equally attractive and skillful dancers? I admit that in the right clubs, like Salsa and Swing clubs, they're more eager to dance and the dancing is a good way to change their world up and actively engage them. But in a regular club, everyone wants to grind with the attractive women. So how do you stand out?
Initially I was talking less about dance clubs, too, than I was about bars and clubs that DIDN'T center around dancing.
Still, good stuff, everyone.