The thing that really made me open up my game was improvising. In the past, every time I would initiate a conversation with a girl, I would be racking my brain trying to find interesting things or stories that have happened to me. And as they were talking, I'd be racking my brain some more for other stuff. These conversations were stiff, awkward and not fun for either of us.
Finally, I decided that I would go up to girls with a completely blank mind and let the immediate situation dictate what would come out of my mouth. I wanted no plan and no back-up things to say. This worked really well. I'm naturally good at telling stories and making **** up off the top of my head and keeping it going without seeming like it's untrue. And most importantly, I have a **** load of fun doing it and my enthusiasm makes it even better. Most of the stuff I come up with is rooted in some kind of real event but major points are totally embellished.
The only downside is that I'm basically telling outright lies. But the stories are just openers anyway and the rest of the conversation is mostly normal. Usually I don't even have to say much after the opener, just listen, because I've already shown my value as an enthusiastic, fun and adventerous person and have nothing left to convey.
Has anybody else tried this with success? Also, have you ever been called on your bull**** at a later time, like after you've started seeing eacother? I haven't yet but I don't see it as a big deal.
Finally, I decided that I would go up to girls with a completely blank mind and let the immediate situation dictate what would come out of my mouth. I wanted no plan and no back-up things to say. This worked really well. I'm naturally good at telling stories and making **** up off the top of my head and keeping it going without seeming like it's untrue. And most importantly, I have a **** load of fun doing it and my enthusiasm makes it even better. Most of the stuff I come up with is rooted in some kind of real event but major points are totally embellished.
The only downside is that I'm basically telling outright lies. But the stories are just openers anyway and the rest of the conversation is mostly normal. Usually I don't even have to say much after the opener, just listen, because I've already shown my value as an enthusiastic, fun and adventerous person and have nothing left to convey.
Has anybody else tried this with success? Also, have you ever been called on your bull**** at a later time, like after you've started seeing eacother? I haven't yet but I don't see it as a big deal.