Improvement Journal

[HighResurrection]

Me: hey your very attractive and I wanted to say something to you because I know i would feel a certain way.

Her: thanks you

Me: yah it's a beautiful day, very hot.

Her: yes it is.

Me: me personally I like it like this, when its hot you can do more, go outside and play sports.

Me: where you from?

Her: Kenya

Me: yah I want to explore that region. I'm actually planing a visit in a couple years. I want to explore all over. And not just one time a want to establish connections and visit multiple times.

Her: yah I know what you mean.

Me: what are some of you interest?

Her: music

Me: that's cool I'm into music too. I play this instrument it's like a one string guitar. What you have to do is beat it the string reapeatly with a stick, while pressing up the string against a stone.

Me: when you singing it's a call and return thing, kinda of like a conversation, not one person calls and no response.

Her:lol

Me: so where you getting off?

Her: close by the conner store, you?



Me: yah that same area as well.

Me: so pass me you number, we should stay in contact

Her: no I don't give out my number

Me: ok whatever

Me: so is there a place where we can talk privately

Her: lol (inaudible)

(so her stop comes, I get off and she stays on)

One of my better approaches

I put out a challenge to anyone doing approaches on this board, no one on this planet is going to out work me.

I am going to run it like a business, new numbers in, setup dates in the night.

3 girls signs of interested

2 new numbers

 

[HighResurrection]

Me: hey your really attractive I thought I would come over and introduce myself.

Her: oh thank you.

Me: I'm Highrez

Her: I'm drebra

Me: hey where you from.

Her: brazil

Me: oh cool, Como vai

Her: tudo bem

Me: that's funny that your from brazil, I was thinking about the culture, the power of thoughts.

Her: what are you up too.

Me: oh I'm just going to buy a fan you?

Her: I am going to drop off books at the library


(I am wondering In these situation if I should, try to stay as long as possible, get off at their stop and try an instant date)

Me: oh your getting of up there that's my stop as well

Me: since your taking care of some thing as I am, why don't we do them together.

Her: oh I have something to take care of after words

(what I did good was open and my proximity was good, good kino improve on rapport)

(called this girl later, she ended up telling me she has a boyfriend)


They say success comes in waves and so does opposition to success. Because the weather is going to change soon i have been saying to myself that i should change my focus more to wealth building and work. But really i have been just been getting opposition. So i'm going to re commit myself and never speak again of not improving. Girl put out in the winter and plus i have a month of summer left. Plus ive learned so much and any fear is nothing from what it was before. So I'm going to take time in the morning to keep my journal strong.

 

[HighResurrection]

Boring boring boring. This is an interview, not good. You wouldn't care much if some stranger in the street asked you that, right? If you ask questions like that she just gotta sense you're looking to sneak your way into a conversation. Be more out there. Your obviously a ballsy guy, cos you open chicks all the time. Be more ballsy in your interactions. Don't be afraid you don't look cool. Hell, flat out make fun of yourself. If you do that the right way, that shows you have massive confidence.

Yah Man I hear you, I can have more fun with it. It is much more enjoyable when your joking around and busting on them and also less like you want something from them.

Most of my approaches lately girl have not been giving me the time of day. For the next ones that I do I'm going to try and make sure I have good body language.


I ran into this girl who I went on 2 dates with yesterday. I haven't went out on a date with her for like two months but I email her and she responds. The other day she wrote me like a book. Ive asked her out a couple more times but she flaked and gives excuses. I know that actions speak louder than words, but at the same time I like her, she thinks like me.

So i seen her and suggested that I walk her to the store, she said she was cool and i left it at that. Anyways today is going to be a good day.

I'm fearless

 

[HighResurrection]

Seen this girl that i approached before. At the bus stop.

Me: hey how you doing

Her: good and you?

Me: well, yah I just got back from ball it was fun.

Her: you tired

Me: no I don't get tired I can go forever,

Me: yah ball is fun, you get good through repetition you muscle have memory, and the more you repeat an action the better you get.

Me: sounds cool.

Me: yah sometimes you have to be able to press up against the person your playing with to be effective.

Me: you also have do go down to get the ball sometimes,

Me: so how's school going?

Her: it's good a lot of work.

Me: yah learning is good the more you take in the better.

Her:yah

Me. Where you living ?

Her: just a little further down.

Me: what are you up for tonight

Her: just going home I'm tired.

Me: we should stay In contact, pass me your number

( handed her my phone)

Me: cool have a good night.

( I text her when I got home no response yet)

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

What did you text her?

 

[HighResurrection]

What did you text her?

I told her how i Love Asian food, And how I eat everything in front of me. She hot but she told me she has a boyfriend.


Some times my mind thinks that you need a huge house and a car and everything all set before you can bring women into your life and anyone who tells you otherwise is just trying to sell you something.

But then I think of all the examples in contrast and I change my thinking.

Everything has been going well, my Internet has been down cause I moved into a different place.

I am coming up with my own personal rules which are 2 calls next and 3 flakes next.

(seen girl on bench and just instinctively approached)

Me: hey how are doing

Her: good and you?

Me: what are you up too?

( I try not to ask this many questions, that's the way it went, next time ill try to focus more on turning questions into statements)

Her: Just waiting for some friends

Me:you don't work at on of these stores do you ( qualifying)

Her: no I work for the government im from the city.

Me: yah me too, what part?

Her: oh a little bit outside the city.

Me: yAh the city is pretty cool, it's a constant pace you have to keep up.

Her: yah I understand you

Me: Also their are so many different things you can do. Lots of variety.

(I asked her about her back ground which broke my state)

Me: hey how about me and you go for tea.

Her: Actually my friends are right there.

(points behind me then gets up and leaves)

Good
-strong opening
-confident communication

Change
-make her look away first always
-proximity
-open and relaxed BL
-light kino

Dj update

Everything is going good. More settled into my new place.
I am changing me attitude completely, girls want me and girls chase me. I'm not chasing girls who don't responed with interest. And absolutely no more oneitis.

(Another girl on bus)

Me: hey how's it going

Her: good and you?

Me: well, what brings you out?

Her: I just went for a walk, needed to get out of the house. You?

Me: yah it always good to get out, Meet new people do new things

Her: yah it's true

Me: what did you get up too.

Her: oh I went to this music festival so I thought I would check it out.

Me:yah music is good, the rythm and vibration feel so good, and it's all ways good with other people.

Her: how long have you been in the city (interest)

Me: about 6 months

Her: oh really I have only been here to months

Me: where are you from?

Her: out west

Me: oh really it must be a different pace for you

Her: I'm actually from the city.

Me: oh ok cool

Me: where are you getting off.

Her: I'm going to they next station, just going to go to a restaurant and get some food.

Me: we should get together some time. Pass me your telephone number.

Her: I don't give out my number, give me yours

(her stop was getting close)

Her: you know what I'll just give it to you.

Called her left s message, she has yet to call back.

Good
-eye contAct
-sexual communication

Improve
-keep it going no pauses

Dj journal

This is what happen with eat set up.

So we agree to meet up for about 1 pm.

I text her telling her I'm held up and can't make it until 2 pm.

I get down their she says she is running late.

I was a little busy doing something else so I was relived she was late. I get to the spot and call her and she picks up.

Me: Where are you?

Girl: I'm like 20min away and the bus will be their in five minutes

Me: ok

Her: I wasn't feeling well, I had to go to the drug store.
You still want me to come

Me: ok let me see...... Yah we can still meet up. Just let me know when your close.

Her: I'll let you know when I'm like 10 min away.

Me: cool

So I work for myself so I take they time to push more products. I text and let her know to meet me at a different location. She gets close and calls so I give her further directions.

The travel time takes like 5 min so I'm like WTF.

I call her

Me: where are you

Her: oh I'm close, I'm just taking to a cashier, I'll be their soon.

Me: ok

5 more min pass again I'm like WTF

So I call her

Me: where are you?

Her: I'm at the central buildings

Me: what, why I told you just to walk up.

Her: yah I walked you didn't see me

Me: so why didn't you just call me, you know what forget it, just come down and meet me.

Her: I'm kind of tired. I have been walking for a while( it a 5 min walk)

Me: ok I'll come and meet you.

Her: I'm not really I. The mood anymore.

Me: ok fine I got to go.

She text me

Her: So what do you do?

(i have not responded yet, man i'm really not with girls wasting my time)

 

[HighResurrection]

I have become aware of something in regards to myself. I notice sometimes when asking for the number, I would expect to get rejected and my facial expression would change to sad one. I think this is from past conditioning. So right now I am focused a lot on keeping my emotions extremely positive when thinking of women and interacting.

I'm still approaching.
I'll keep ya'll posted.

 

[HighResurrection]

Dj journal

Had an approach the other day

Me: Hey

Girls: hey

Me: what are you up too.

Girl: why are just heading home.

Me: home is where the food is and also the be

Girl: yah that's true

Me: where you living at?

Her: oh I live in the south

Me: sounds cool

Me I go to shake her hand)

Me: you know it proper etiquette when some one extends their hand to shake it.

Her: yah I don't feel like shaking hands

Me: if this was an interview, you would be fried

Her: well it's not and I don't fella

Pros: approached, loud, open body

Improve: more relaxed vibe

I'm still with the positive vibe mindset, i've notice that i'm a lot more sexual.