I missed out on a allot in the first two years of college. Hopefully you guys will learn from my mistakes:
-The first couple days are the most important when making friends. Social groups develop fast, so make making friends a priority when you get to college. It gets alittle harder to make friends with each passing day. After two weeks, its really hard.
-Just introduce yourself to people. Don't even worry about 'game' or whatever. A simple 'hi, im _____" will do. Everyone has been stripped way of their social circle and social proof, and everyone is open to meeting new peopl e. Just imagine that everyone has the same feelings you do towards meeting new prople, cuz thats exactly how everyone is feeling.
You don't need any fancy social tricks, mainly cuz most people don't know any. Most people have been dependent on their highschool clicks for friends their whole lives, so most won't know too well how to meet new people. They just do it.
-Knock on all your dorm mates doors with a roomate or a friend you just made (there's less pressure when theirs more than one person, and having another person establishes yourself as a social person).
-Leave your door open and have a sign that says "don't me shy, drop on by =]" to have in inviting aura to your room. Also design your room for socializing. One of my dormates did this, all we would all go to his room to hang out. He became an alpha male through this.
-Try to throw a party and invite as many people as possible, or if know of one, invite people to go with you.
-You'll be doing some 'friendswapping'. That is, hanging out with friends that you've met through other friends. Everyone does this to meet people they have more in common with. It might go on throughout your whole four years of college.
-In the dinning commons, sit with random people. Always go with one or two friends (again, to show your social side and to give people the option of meeting more people)
-Have as many conversations as possible, and after each conversation, get her phone number. No matter how small the rapport is, you will get the number. Even if you've never gotten a phone number in your life and are still looking deep within to find the confidence, just do it. Rejection rate is virtual non-existant in the first couple days of college. Not only will you get numbers, but they'll pick up too.
Think about it, everyone is new, people don't have any close friends right now, everyone's social proof has been stripped away and now everyone has anxiety. Girls who had 2-3 option of guys to chose from now have zero. This will be the easiest time ever to get numbers, don't waste this oppurtunity.
-Girls are also the most horniest at this time. Almost Every girl who is still a virgin will lose her virginity during the first quarter/semester/trimester of her freshmen year. Girls want to experiment, and they are also inexperianced. They've been dependent on using their social circles to get guys all their lives, and suddenly their thrown into the world of adult dating. Guys, use sosuave to your advantage, cuz everything you need to know about adult dating is on here. The girls will be in your world now, not theirs.
-Take very little and very easy classes for atleast the first quarter/sememester. This the most valuable socializing time you have. Classes can come later.
Thats all I could thing of.
-The first couple days are the most important when making friends. Social groups develop fast, so make making friends a priority when you get to college. It gets alittle harder to make friends with each passing day. After two weeks, its really hard.
-Just introduce yourself to people. Don't even worry about 'game' or whatever. A simple 'hi, im _____" will do. Everyone has been stripped way of their social circle and social proof, and everyone is open to meeting new peopl e. Just imagine that everyone has the same feelings you do towards meeting new prople, cuz thats exactly how everyone is feeling.
You don't need any fancy social tricks, mainly cuz most people don't know any. Most people have been dependent on their highschool clicks for friends their whole lives, so most won't know too well how to meet new people. They just do it.
-Knock on all your dorm mates doors with a roomate or a friend you just made (there's less pressure when theirs more than one person, and having another person establishes yourself as a social person).
-Leave your door open and have a sign that says "don't me shy, drop on by =]" to have in inviting aura to your room. Also design your room for socializing. One of my dormates did this, all we would all go to his room to hang out. He became an alpha male through this.
-Try to throw a party and invite as many people as possible, or if know of one, invite people to go with you.
-You'll be doing some 'friendswapping'. That is, hanging out with friends that you've met through other friends. Everyone does this to meet people they have more in common with. It might go on throughout your whole four years of college.
-In the dinning commons, sit with random people. Always go with one or two friends (again, to show your social side and to give people the option of meeting more people)
-Have as many conversations as possible, and after each conversation, get her phone number. No matter how small the rapport is, you will get the number. Even if you've never gotten a phone number in your life and are still looking deep within to find the confidence, just do it. Rejection rate is virtual non-existant in the first couple days of college. Not only will you get numbers, but they'll pick up too.
Think about it, everyone is new, people don't have any close friends right now, everyone's social proof has been stripped away and now everyone has anxiety. Girls who had 2-3 option of guys to chose from now have zero. This will be the easiest time ever to get numbers, don't waste this oppurtunity.
-Girls are also the most horniest at this time. Almost Every girl who is still a virgin will lose her virginity during the first quarter/semester/trimester of her freshmen year. Girls want to experiment, and they are also inexperianced. They've been dependent on using their social circles to get guys all their lives, and suddenly their thrown into the world of adult dating. Guys, use sosuave to your advantage, cuz everything you need to know about adult dating is on here. The girls will be in your world now, not theirs.
-Take very little and very easy classes for atleast the first quarter/sememester. This the most valuable socializing time you have. Classes can come later.
Thats all I could thing of.
