I'm very cynical now and full of hate.

[nonameok]

I HATE women. I never had a girlfriend and never will. The only times I got laid was when I paid a woman or promised her something. I'm never going to hold hands with a chick, kiss a girl intimately because we're in love, or any of the other **** that human beings were made to do. I guess that I'm suppose to be happy masturbating every ****ing night. I'm a man with sexual urges and can't get with a female. I'm suppose to be alright with that?

I'm not a newbie and I've read the DJ Bible and these forums for a long time now. I don't need to hit the gym, I don't need to increase my confidence, I'm not a lazy bastard with no job, I don't have any weird habits, I'm not disfigured, I'm very funny (when I'm not pissed off as I am right now), I can mingle with all types of people...


BUT THERE IS A ****ING CURSE ON MY LIFE. A CURSE THAT PREVENTS ANY FEMALE FROM LIKING ME. Oh I forgot, I do get interest from fat chicks and I'm not attracted to fat chicks. Other than this, I don't care if the girl has tattoos, wear glasses, is tall or short, skinny or thick, white black asian, hispanic... I'm not picky. I'm not going after HB10's. Hell, I'm more attracted to a regular ol' chick in the HB6 range.

I tried online dating. I read women profiles and sent an honest, custom message to them. What happens? My message gets deleted. I'm sorry that I don't have pics of me mountain climbing or riding a ****ing horse or some other fun pic that everybody says I must have on my profile. And I don't take creepy pics of me with no shirt on standing in my bedroom. In real life, I smile and make conversation with all kinds of women. But I'm smart enough to know if they like me and I never get that feeling. It's more like they're being polite than actually interested in what we're talking about.

Congrats to all you guys that successfully changed your game and now is no longer alone or getting pootang every week. But I don't give a **** anymore. I'm going to become the biggest ******* in the world. Not only regarding women but every facet of my life. I tried the whole being considerate thing and it got me nowhere. **** everybody and everything. I am going to cut you off in traffic, I am going to steal that parking spot and may even you give you the finger. I'm going to let doors slam in the faces of women coming in behind me, oh don't drop nothing because I won't help you pick it up. If I don't like you, male or female, I will tell you to get the **** out of my face. If people can't handle my newfound harshness, then bring it on. BECAUSE I DON'T GIVE A ****. I DON'T GIVE A ****. I DON'T GIVE A ****.

It doesn't make me sad, in fact I get happy when I hear about some college student getting murdered or injured in a hit and run. "oh she was a beautiful and talented girl, how could this happen." I don't know but I'm glad it did. **** all these chicks that complain endlessly about their relationships. **** all the chicks with kids at the age of 19. I hope you struggle for the rest of your ****ing life and have more kids and then you all be on welfare and can't afford diapers. I have no more regard for human life, not even my own. I die then I ****ing die.

 

[Darth]

"It doesn't make me sad, in fact I get happy when I hear about some college student getting murdered or injured in a hit and run. "oh she was a beautiful and talented girl, how could this happen." I don't know but I'm glad it did."

Wow....

Dude. The world is a beautiful place. Life is too short to be full of so much hate.

The thing is, I believe girls can sense your attitude/mood. I know with myself I've found that to be true. When I'm in a great mood and feeling good about everything, girls smile at me, talk to me, etc. When I'm not in a good mood and I'm thinking bad thoughts, even if I try to fake it I get no attention from anyone.

If you do what you just said you would do in this post, you will be depressed forever. Love girls and don't hate them. Love yourself. And love the big man up above who created you and this world. Then see what happens.

Love,
Darth

 

[slaog]

You're frustrations in not finding a woman has turned to anger.


You need to change the way you see things. You get in life what you think about. Trust me on that. The word that stands out most in your post is 'cursed'. You think of yourself as being cursed and can never get a woman and so that becomes your reality. It happens all the time.


To attract women you need to be an attractive person. Being 'nice' is a good thing but you were 'AFC nice'. That means you only did nice things so people would like you. Am I right? Did you ever do nice things without wanting something in return like female attention?


You'll have to work on your inner game like most of us. Patience is important though.

The thing is, I believe girls can sense your attitude/mood. I know with myself I've found that to be true. When I'm in a great mood and feeling good about everything, girls smile at me, talk to me, etc. When I'm not in a good mood and I'm thinking bad thoughts, even if I try to fake it I get no attention from anyone.

Yes they can sense your mood. Thats why inner game is so important.

 

[chinwaggler]

you probably have 0 value. being an a$$h0le won't sort out any of your problems.

 

[CapedCrusader08]

Hoo boy. You sound like me. But I try to not let it be so obvious when I am amongst others.

 

[Moofahsa]

Sweet man, glad to hear you're pissed off.

Be sure to do weird things to break womens hearts to. Bring flowers to a HB6 at work that is very shy. Don't say anything, just hand them to her and put a phone number to the rejection hotline on the TO: and FROM:- That will be DEVASTATING

Be evil...it is great. I went through that stage once in my late teens, I did some really ****ed up things and had zero emotion or sympathy afterward. I was labeled a "moderate" sociopath early in life, and lemme tell you it is great. I see people all the time that are holding back doing something because they have a sense of morals...when you don't care you are 100% FREE.

Look someone in the eye and say "You know what I like about you?" ....."NOT A ****ING THING" and calmly walk off.

Oh man, welcome to the club.

 

[oakraiderz2]

With the sh*tty attitude that you have id be suprised if anyone likes you.

 

[Prod]

So how many girls do you actually ask out in real life? Not online dating.

Also, someone's gonna get an ass kicking with that kind of attitude, hope you can defend yourself or that'll be you.

 

[Serg897]

Yeah, this attitude of yours needs to change if you ever want to have any hope of attracting women to you. I would be willing to bet this attitude radiates from you and is visible a mile away.

I'm sure there a plenty of positives in your life. I bet you live in a developed country where you have food and water everyday. You definately have internet access. Heat. A roof to live under. There are people in other parts of the world that have to worry about even these basic things! Don't take them for granted.

You need to stop being so hateful and change your attitude. Otherwise, nobody can help you.

 

[Juan_Man]

You are too desperate. A guy who is willing to take anything, gets nothing. You have no value because you have no self-esteem. We've all been hurt and rejected, but we got to keep pushing forward. Take the power back! Stop hating your existence and start appreciating it for what it is. No one has a perfect life. Relationships can be a pain in the a$$, too. Kissing a girl is not what it's cracked up to be and neither is having sex for free. Kissing and having sex with a girl you fall in love with is worth it, but you need to be patient to find that. Plus, like I said, relationships aren't always roses, smiles, and love letters and sometimes being single is better. The girls that delete your messages online are doing you a favor - you don't have to spend your money to take out some *****!!!!! Start enjoying your life now. Otherwise, you are limiting your chances of ever finding any type of happiness.

BTW, you are a hero for writing what a lot of other members of this forum have wanted to write. Those members have now found someone they can relate to. So now that you have helped changed the world, it's time to change your life.

 

[CapedCrusader08]

Well,I identify with alot of what he said, and wish I could have changed things sooner, what can I do?

 

[imaginemypotential]

listening to tright song and reading had busted my appendix from me laughing, this site is so ****ign real its crazy, i hate all females with a passion and love them, I do often do crazy site, i have no moral and yet i do, my thoughts an dpercieveons on the world i take seriously, but than i dont take them seriously, my advice to u is join the club, I dont even try to get potang and it just comes, just be cool, read a book or some ****, spend time with ur family do ohter things, dont focus on women and they'll come running

 

[CapedCrusader08]

I don't focus of women, yet, they aren't coming running.

 

[Smartone84]

guys, cut the crap, this man is obviously very very upset. I'm sure its not about him having no self esteem and no confidence. I can bet you he had all of that and tried just like many men try to find a beautiful women to have and to hold. Unfortunately, the cards just haven't fallen the right way for him yet and he has turned to anger. Now I can relate to this guy on almost all levels which makes me upset, from everything to never getting a gf, to having fat girls that like me, but he seems extremely angry. To say that he gets happy to hear that a beautiful college girl got murdered is just wrong and scary, and I hope he straightens up.

First things first "nonameok", how old are you, and what is your REAL history with women? By that I mean tell us what has gone down in the past with you and chicks

 

[nonameok]

I know what I said sounds really ****ed up but it's how I'm feeling right now. You know what else pisses me off? Every chick I would like to approach act like they have a stick up their a$$. I'm walking towards them, smiling, making positive eye contact and I get nothing in return. It's not like one or two girls... all the real ugly girls or women 30 years older than me are all so nice and cheery. Maybe I should get with some AARP members.

I'm tired of chicks always on cell phones looking so important and loved. I'm tired of guys all up in my business at the workplace because I never mention a girlfriend or significant other. I'm tired of going to the movies alone and eating popcorn at home watching netflix alone. im tired of seeing hot chicks with fat engagement rings on their fingers. oh and they're also the nice ones too that actually return my smile and have good conversation. yeah *****, you already have someone in your life and NOW you want to show me attention?

I'm sick that females are all afraid and cautious because of weird sickos and now it's hard to make a chick not think you're a psycho. oh, i hate social proof. I can hang out with people but im not the dude to take a lot of pics with friends or go clubbing all the time. im not about to change this aspect of my life either. do you mean to tell me because i don't have social proof, attracting a chick will be 100% harder?

I don't ask a lot of girls out because i never feel the mutual attraction. the ones i did ask out said the word boyfriend or some other lame excuse.

Maybe chicks have special powers and can read minds but I'm very good at hiding my feelings. I doubt they can sense how I'm feeling.

Oh kissing may not special anymore when you kissed a lot of girls. sex may not be special anymore when you've had passionate sex with someone you cared about a lot. but to someone who's lacked this experience, it's like telling a guy in a trailer home not to dream about a mansion, that it isn''t all its cracked up to be. i will probably feel the same way if my life does a 180 and kissing and passionate sex becomes yesterday news, but right now i want to experience and i don't think I'm wrong for feeling this way.

 

[nonameok]

I'm in my mid-20's. I will give a quick history of past encounters and relationships.

middle school this hispanic chick liked me and always wanted to do phone sex. i was way too shy and nervous. eventually i used to avoid her calls. end of school year (8th grade) she mentioned to me her parents were going out and wouldn't be back until late at night and that i should come over the next day after school. long story short, i didn't show up at the bus stop, she seen me a couple days later and slapped me.

in fact, here's a pic of her now. found her on myspace.

When I was in high school, the most i got with a chick was feeling up her up. skipped out on my prom.

after h.s. i didn't go to college but started working right away. was buddies with a guy who was a photographer. i had sex with a few of his models on promises i'd convince my friend to choose them for various projects. had sex with two escorts (not at the same time).

The closes relationship I've had with a woman was the girl back in M.S. We did talk a lot and she really liked me. Just way too horny for me at the time.

I got attention from chicks when I was in school, but when I graduated and got over my shyness (had to because of my profession), i don't get the time of day from any girl.

 

[KontrollerX]

Your key to success is the not caring attitude.

Though you should tone it down several notches from where its at currently due to anger and then you'll be ready to get some chicks finally.

And definitely answer Smartone84's questions he will help you.

He is good at turning posters around and into successes.

 

[brownbear.]

sound like you need more than this site can give you.

have you thought about talking to a therapist?

traveling works for me when i'm in a funk and need a change of perspective, you don't need to go far, or for a long time. just changing your physical surroundings for a few days/weeks/whatever can be extremely helpful in readjusting your outlook.

also, i reccomend studying some philosophy/theology. i dont think which ones are as important as finding some thing that speaks directly to you. i personally take bits and pieces from different religions and apply what work for me. buddhism is a great starting point IMO, try picking up the tao te ching.

try to keep an open mind, and chin up bucko! there are things in life besides women.

 

[Smartone84]

and one last thing, do you have a pic you can post?

 

[Sir_Turtle]

=D three choices

1. die
2. distract yourself from the fact that your gonna die anyway
3. Find jesus, except "Jesus doesn't exist" so we're back to square one which would probably be .... die. =D