I'm tired of blowing dates. I need help with this next one

[CostaDeSol]

I've only gone on two dates before and I blew them both. So i wanted to ask for help so I that I don't blow my third date.

I sat behind this HB7 last semester in a class. We would chit chat but I never asked her out then because I didn't want to make things awkward if i f'd up the date which has happened before. So we are definitely beyond a coffee date. She never showed many ioi's which I took as a red flag. but she did seem impressed with me since we work in similar fields and I am at a much more advanced level than she is.

She is very religious. This makes me think i will have a tiny chance of getting her in the sack very quickly. She is also under 21 so we can't do the whole bar thing.

I thought maybe I could take her out at night to an exotic restaurant and then offer to go back to my place for a movie.


So my question is, if you were me, how would you play this? should I wait until the 2nd or 3rd date to invite her to my place? or should I go in for the kill on date 1?


I know i fell behind when i failed to get with her while we had the same class. but I don't think I'm out of the game. I just need to know how proceed from here.

 

[CostaDeSol]

and thanks in advance for any advice. I will appreciate it.

 

[bankai]

High religiosity does not always mean you can't get with the girl. That really depends on their interest level and if you've raised it high enough.

How old are you? 3 dates in your entire seems rather low.... you seem to be putting all your eggs in one basket (this date)

I would start going to more public places and chatting up random people just to get over your anxieties and insecurities.

 

[CostaDeSol]

I'm 25. i've had gf's before but they only happened because the girls were my friends first. I would meet them through my social circle and then i would isolate them after a while.

but what this means for me is that i lack many dating skills.