I'm throughly confused!!!!!!!!!!!

warren760

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Last week at my job, i was cashiering and i get into a conversation with an attractive girl. I was spitting game at her and she was being really receptive to it. She was also blushing quite a bit when I was talking to her. to make a long story short. I got her number. I called her a couple days later. and i asked for a date. she said she was real busy and she would call me. the next day she leaves a message on my phone and asks how im doing and what i was up to. So the next day i returned her call and she didnt answer, so i left a message and said hi and told her to call me when she gets the message. This was days ago and she still has'nt called. This make me very curious whats going on in her head. Any insight would be helpful THANKS
 

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STOP!

You will drive yourself crazy trying to figure out what women think.

You called her last. The ball is in her court. If she doesn't call, she's not interested. Move on...
 

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I've learned that women RARELY call back, unless IL is through the roof. Especially to set up a first date. It's the man's place to do that.

But you don't want to be uber-persistent. Give her 3 calls. If she rejects your offers all 3 times (MAKE AN OFFER, dammit!), then just NEXT her.

You have plenty of other women just WAITING for you to call and offer them the chance to share in some of your fun.

Right? :eek:

Oh, and don't ASK for a date. You don't ASK for a date, you GIVE a date. Then she either accepts or rejects it.
 

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Squirrels has got it right! Especially
the "uber" part. Don't convey
desperation.
 

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hey everyone, I appreciate you responses and i will take all you r advice. THANX.....................
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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SHE CALLED ME BACK..................It turns out she was real busy with work and school and thats why I hav'nt heard from her. Again thanks for the help.
 
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