Hey Frats,
Sorry to hear that you're frustrated. But look at it this way: you came to this forum to improve upon the behaviors that led to your failures with women in the past. Just by posting here and reading through threads, you're already 100% better than you were before. Yes, it sucks that you didn't have those skills when you wanted them, but we only learn when we're ready to learn. "When the student is ready, the teacher appears."
You'd mentioned in another thread that you are interested in shaming women. With that type of attitude, it doesn't surprise me that these girls hate you. So instead of thinking that women are evil and out to hurt you, and instead of going in the opposite direction and pedestalizing them and thinking about how to get them to like you, how about trying this:
Just think: how can I drive this girl crazy? I find approaching a plate with this attitude works wonders and does not pedestalize a girl nor does it do anything to disrespect them. Driving them crazy is fun for them too, they'll actually like you more for it. And you won't be doing it just to mess with their emotions (or "shame" them), but you are doing it because you know it's the best way to build attraction and you BOTH will have FUN doing it.
Does this make any sense to you?
Chin up, man.
