uly55
Don Juan
I've been reading Dj site since Jan 03.I have gone from a guy who had the lowest self esteem, with no women taking notice of him to having loads more self esteem and confidence and being noticed frequently now by women. I don't get to go out much, because of my situation with me being a full time carer of my mother.I might get to go out once or twice a month Anyway A mate of mine decided that we needed to go out and find some women. We planned it for last night! (a friday night).In the past month I had completely change my wardeobe and brought over $400 worth of new clothes. A needed and big change.I was feeling and looking good.....and armed with my Dj knowledge!
So we were out in beautiful Brisbane city for a night on the town and clubbing.Btw I hate clubbing,and had a real fear of it till now.I decided to let my mate lead as he had been to clubs before, and I thought he knew what he was doing. I was wrong.
We went to a few clubs, but no action there.So we ended up going to the casino. Much better! So the ladies are pouring in by the truck load.We go to the bar and ordered some drinks and I spot a nice blonde checking me out across the bar.She see's me notice her and starts playing with her hair with both hands. This is where I drop straight back into being a Afc. I forget everything I learned to be a dj. I'm so angry with myself. I didn't smile, wink or f**king do anything. I watch her buy her drink with her cute friend and walk out of my life.
My main goal was to use this night as practice and I did nothing.Ok so we go out from the casino about an hour later cause there's nothing else we like there. We walk to another club an there's these cute girls on the corner giving away tickets to another bar with free drinks.I'm still pi$$ed off with myself so I just take the tickets, saying thanks and keep walking with my mate to the club.We get to the club and it turns out to be all older people,way above our age group.So we turn back the way we come to go to another club, walking by the chicks giving away the free tickets! We stop at the corner lights, and the nice blonde comes over and walks right past my mate and gives me two more free tickets and says "we just saw you before right"? I'm like "yeah thats right". I ask her where the place is she's giveing tickets out to is? she tells me then I keep walking cause I'm still pi$$ed at myself.
I noticed that Blonde (with the tickets) and her friend are walking behind us, she says " we are following u 2"!! I turn around smile / laugh and keep walking.They keep giveing out tickets walking behind us.Then they cross the road and give out tickets to guys on the otherside.Giveing up on me and my mate I guess?
So when I get home, I think of 1000's of things I could have said and done,especially to the free ticket chicks.Why the Hell did I go brain dead? I'm now trying to get my mate a pc and get him onto the Dj site.He's not the leader I thought he was going to be.I'm going to "try" to take control the next time we go out looking for women. He ended up being more pi$$ed off with the night that me.I atleast learned some things and pinned where I' going wrong for the most part. I don't think i'll be rushing back to the clubs in a hurry, but only if theres a group of us heading in. I atleast conquered my fear of clubs.That's a good thing.
Ok this Afc is ready to be BBQed !!
Uly
So we were out in beautiful Brisbane city for a night on the town and clubbing.Btw I hate clubbing,and had a real fear of it till now.I decided to let my mate lead as he had been to clubs before, and I thought he knew what he was doing. I was wrong.
We went to a few clubs, but no action there.So we ended up going to the casino. Much better! So the ladies are pouring in by the truck load.We go to the bar and ordered some drinks and I spot a nice blonde checking me out across the bar.She see's me notice her and starts playing with her hair with both hands. This is where I drop straight back into being a Afc. I forget everything I learned to be a dj. I'm so angry with myself. I didn't smile, wink or f**king do anything. I watch her buy her drink with her cute friend and walk out of my life.
My main goal was to use this night as practice and I did nothing.Ok so we go out from the casino about an hour later cause there's nothing else we like there. We walk to another club an there's these cute girls on the corner giving away tickets to another bar with free drinks.I'm still pi$$ed off with myself so I just take the tickets, saying thanks and keep walking with my mate to the club.We get to the club and it turns out to be all older people,way above our age group.So we turn back the way we come to go to another club, walking by the chicks giving away the free tickets! We stop at the corner lights, and the nice blonde comes over and walks right past my mate and gives me two more free tickets and says "we just saw you before right"? I'm like "yeah thats right". I ask her where the place is she's giveing tickets out to is? she tells me then I keep walking cause I'm still pi$$ed at myself.
I noticed that Blonde (with the tickets) and her friend are walking behind us, she says " we are following u 2"!! I turn around smile / laugh and keep walking.They keep giveing out tickets walking behind us.Then they cross the road and give out tickets to guys on the otherside.Giveing up on me and my mate I guess?
So when I get home, I think of 1000's of things I could have said and done,especially to the free ticket chicks.Why the Hell did I go brain dead? I'm now trying to get my mate a pc and get him onto the Dj site.He's not the leader I thought he was going to be.I'm going to "try" to take control the next time we go out looking for women. He ended up being more pi$$ed off with the night that me.I atleast learned some things and pinned where I' going wrong for the most part. I don't think i'll be rushing back to the clubs in a hurry, but only if theres a group of us heading in. I atleast conquered my fear of clubs.That's a good thing.
Ok this Afc is ready to be BBQed !!
Uly