johnballantine02
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Should I just go for it? Advice needed.
What the ****, I'm pissed.
Okay, I either want this girl to love me or hate me. I really can't stand anything in between, like some ****ty friendship.
I started working a year ago with this girl Shannon. When we first met and worked together I was the biggest AFC. About six months ago I went to college and only saw her every now and then. I also found this site and became a little pimp (I've had my share). So now a year later I started to work again more with her. I see her everyweekend.
I admit that I had oneitis bad over her, but now I don't see her any different then anyother girl. The only thing is that she is very hot. Like, smoking hot and I want to hit it. So before she would barely talk to me and our conversations weren't anything great.
Now theres lots of kino (she's really flirty, not attention ***** though), joking around with each other, etc... She really only talks to me out of the guys and she comes and asks me to work with her many times lately. I remember I asked her to come out for food(dinner) on our break at work and she turned me down, this was before I went to school. Note that she had a bf and she was also busy doing some work at the time. But no excuses, I took it as she didn't really like me. I felt bad, but it passed. She probably doesn't even remember I asked her to get food cause even then I was really calm and just like "okay, whatever, thats cool."
So now our relationship is on another level. We have gone out for some food at work(one time when I didn't invite her she says to me; "oh, you went out and didn't ask me to come?"), but we have done nothing outside of work. The thing is that its weird cause we knew each other from before so I feel like I'm in the friends zone. I also am just an average guy while she's an HB9. I am pretty average, while all her friends are gorgeous and I think that she is the type that is so superficial that there boyfriend has to be really hot so they can show him off to the girls. I know, its terrible......but I just want to hit it.
Okay, so why don't I just ask her out? Cause there's a feeling that tells me that shes just going to say "no". I've danced around the subject and she kinda gets quiet. She tells me about the partys she goes to, but never once invites me. I don't really have many people to hang out with and parties to go to so I usually just tell her about my adventures in college.
What do you guys think? I'm so sick that I might just say something like "so when are we going out?" I'm not sure what she would say. That line doesn't really assume the sale, but I want to see what her response would be, serious or not.
BTW, I just have a ****ty department store job while I'm in school. I don't care what happens with my job. I hate being out in that place where you don't know what your relationship is.
What the ****, I'm pissed.
Okay, I either want this girl to love me or hate me. I really can't stand anything in between, like some ****ty friendship.
I started working a year ago with this girl Shannon. When we first met and worked together I was the biggest AFC. About six months ago I went to college and only saw her every now and then. I also found this site and became a little pimp (I've had my share). So now a year later I started to work again more with her. I see her everyweekend.
I admit that I had oneitis bad over her, but now I don't see her any different then anyother girl. The only thing is that she is very hot. Like, smoking hot and I want to hit it. So before she would barely talk to me and our conversations weren't anything great.
Now theres lots of kino (she's really flirty, not attention ***** though), joking around with each other, etc... She really only talks to me out of the guys and she comes and asks me to work with her many times lately. I remember I asked her to come out for food(dinner) on our break at work and she turned me down, this was before I went to school. Note that she had a bf and she was also busy doing some work at the time. But no excuses, I took it as she didn't really like me. I felt bad, but it passed. She probably doesn't even remember I asked her to get food cause even then I was really calm and just like "okay, whatever, thats cool."
So now our relationship is on another level. We have gone out for some food at work(one time when I didn't invite her she says to me; "oh, you went out and didn't ask me to come?"), but we have done nothing outside of work. The thing is that its weird cause we knew each other from before so I feel like I'm in the friends zone. I also am just an average guy while she's an HB9. I am pretty average, while all her friends are gorgeous and I think that she is the type that is so superficial that there boyfriend has to be really hot so they can show him off to the girls. I know, its terrible......but I just want to hit it.
Okay, so why don't I just ask her out? Cause there's a feeling that tells me that shes just going to say "no". I've danced around the subject and she kinda gets quiet. She tells me about the partys she goes to, but never once invites me. I don't really have many people to hang out with and parties to go to so I usually just tell her about my adventures in college.
What do you guys think? I'm so sick that I might just say something like "so when are we going out?" I'm not sure what she would say. That line doesn't really assume the sale, but I want to see what her response would be, serious or not.
BTW, I just have a ****ty department store job while I'm in school. I don't care what happens with my job. I hate being out in that place where you don't know what your relationship is.
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