ThunderMaverick
Master Don Juan
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iqqi said:I'm just saying, most people are good for something. She is offering him a social plan B on a silver platter.
You have to get the whole, she is good for one thing or nothing, mentality out of your head. Otherwise you are a slave to your need for validation (and or sex)... AND lonely on nights you COULD BE hanging out with hot latin chicks and at the same time enjoying the benefits of being out in the night, and putting yourself in destiny's path (this will never ever be your living room).
That's very true. However I don't have the idea of "women are good for one thing" mindset. I have a "women are good for me for MANY things" mindset.
Currently, I have no desire to have female friends. They contribute as much as women I'm romantically involved with currently; not much.
Don't get me wrong, if friendship happens then it happens. I don't, however, go out of my way to make it happen. I don't avoid it if I think the girl would be good to be friends with.