Im reading the female dating strategy website and...

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Yeah, that would be my first retort as well but i am interested in hearing more thought about it. I guess their response would be that those guys were really good at faking it but "nice guys" arent.
That is their response but it’s a flat out LIE. The dark truth is women seek out the guys who treat them bad. It’s not until they have zero value on the dating market so they settle for a nice guy.
 

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What i see women say is that they didnt know he wasnt a good person until he felt he had her locked in, and then started showing who he really is.
Yeah, that would be my first retort as well but i am interested in hearing more thought about it. I guess their response would be that those guys were really good at faking it but "nice guys" arent.
My guess is that this excuse is used by a woman who is into bad boys ... she knows deep inside right from the start who she is dealing with, but she hopes she'll be able to tame this one. When it doesn't work out, she'll trot out that excuse to some poor sap she's willing to settle for and who is naive enough to believe her.

Another way a woman expresses this is with the: 'I was in a toxic relationship' whereby she portrays herself as a victim. In reality, what she's saying if you read between the lines is that she is a toxic person, otherwise it wouldn't have been possible for that relationship to start, let alone continue for however long it did.
 

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That is their response but it’s a flat out LIE. The dark truth is women seek out the guys who treat them bad. It’s not until they have zero value on the dating market so they settle for a nice guy.
My guess is that this excuse is used by a woman who is into bad boys ... she knows deep inside right from the start who she is dealing with, but she hopes she'll be able to tame this one. When it doesn't work out, she'll trot out that excuse to some poor sap she's willing to settle for and who is naive enough to believe her.

Another way a woman expresses this is with the: 'I was in a toxic relationship' whereby she portrays herself as a victim. In reality, what she's saying if you read between the lines is that she is a toxic person, otherwise it wouldn't have been possible for that relationship to start, let alone continue for however long it did.
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This is like minor access to their forums.

But they talk about things that are highly important for us. Like places that only women go to meet men and how the areas are packed with women and they have problems meeting men there. Like cooking classes for example. Or Facebook groups etc

They also have a very supportive attitude towards eachother
I wonder what they look like. A bunch of fatties or uglies I would think if they need advice on how to meet men.
 

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That is their response but it’s a flat out LIE. The dark truth is women seek out the guys who treat them bad. It’s not until they have zero value on the dating market so they settle for a nice guy.
I don’t think they intentionally seek out men who treat them bad. I’ve never heard of a woman being turned on by a guy who was insulting or rude on the first date.

Rather, women seek out men who seem romantic and exciting at first blush. And such men inevitably mistreat them. Not immediately but after the woman has already developed feelings.

Most women are incapable of understanding that you can have a guy who gives you tinges and a guy who treats you with respect…but it’s not going to be the same person.
 

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Why would a bunch of fish need to trade notes on where the best fishing spots are?

Perhaps because they fishermen catching them are practicing catch and release..?
Don't ask the fish how to catch them.
 

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I don’t think they intentionally seek out men who treat them bad. I’ve never heard of a woman being turned on by a guy who was insulting or rude on the first date.

Rather, women seek out men who seem romantic and exciting at first blush. And such men inevitably mistreat them. Not immediately but after the woman has already developed feelings.

Most women are incapable of understanding that you can have a guy who gives you tinges and a guy who treats you with respect…but it’s not going to be the same person.
It happens far too often wjth too many women for it to be dumb luck. They might not seek it out but they do reward such behavior. They punish the opposite behavior. Those are just facts.
 
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