These kinds of sights are really nothing more than women trying to turn their lives into something interesting.
Look.... women are not fvcking stupid. They know exactly how to get a man and how to keep him. All a woman has to do is keep fit by watching what she eats and getting exercise every other day. She doesn't have to have a super model body, she can be 20 lbs overweight and most men won't care. She just can't be a fat@ss. Next, she has to be fvcking pleasant... she doesn't have to be a completely subservient, she just has to NOT be a b1tch, be friendly to your friends and family and not be embarrassing. She has to give in now and again and go along with what the man wants to do without him having to fvcking beg for it. Finally, she has to be just a little appreciative for things her man does for her.... just a thank you every now and then... it takes NO FVCKING effort at all... none of this takes much effort.
Here is some truth.... when women get together and communicate back and forth on these sites or in person and talk about relationships that are falling apart... they will support and defend the chick that is having problems.... but they KNOW that if a relationship falls apart, it is the WOMAN"S FAULT. Fvck, the woman in a bad relationship knows it's her fault... they know the man had little to do with the failure. They aren't really trying to give helpful advice... it's just communicating for the sake of communicating... if women have nothing to complain and talk about... they will create it.... it's just how they are.
Now there are times when a woman really is with a man that isn't good for her, but it really is her fault for picking him int he first place, women are spoiled for choice... they know the red flags a man can exhibit and she knows early on if a dude isn't good for her, but her emotions control her. When a woman says she can't find a good man, what she is saying is that she can't find a man that checks all her boxes and that she is hot for. She will always gravitate towards a man that stimulates her emotionally in spite of all the rational evaluative criteria she might otherwise look for. This is just how women are.
If a relationship fails either one of two things happened: (1) The woman picked the wrong dude, maybe thinking she could change him... but women know people don't change. (2) She didn't do what she knows needs to be done to keep a man. It's nuts, if a chick picks the wrong dude... she just needs to dump him and there are a string of dudes waiting on dating apps that are willing to take a shot.
Here is something every man needs to internalize. If you are in a relationship with a woman... she is being b1tchy and putting on weight and just being a pain in the @ss doing things that pi$$ you off, making things hard... do her a favor and dump her. She isn't happy with you and there is nothing you will be able to do to turn this around. Then she can go to her friends and talk about what a 'b@stard' you are.... don't take it personal, the chicks she is telling her she awesome knows it's her fault. Why? Because relationships are the purview of women... she is a major league hitter facing little league pitchers (men).
So as men what can we do about this? Well the concept is simple: execution is hard. Be the very best version of yourself you can be... this will make you attractive to the greatest number of women. Then you have to find one that is head over heels in love with you. Then you have to display male strength characteristics to keep her attracted while still busting your butt to be the best version of yourself you can be.
