Firestar786
Senior Don Juan
so long story short:
had a new neighbour move into the apartments where i live. the management agency gave her my phone number so her and I could arrange parking next to each other.
She texts me and I arrange to go over to talk to her. After discussing the parking she messages me saying thanks for coming over.
I then thought she was a nice girl so I thought id try to get with her. So I messaged her back making small talk and she was fairly receptive. Later that evening at 1am she offered for me to visit her at her apartment, but instead I asked her to come visit me. We spent the early morning together then she left to go home to sleep.
The following few days later she text me and I persuaded her to come over of which she said well if I come over I'd stay till 6am then go to work. I said thats cool, come and stay over. That evening after eating with her we went to bedroom and started to make out. She seemed as if she wanted sex but we never did - her saying that we're not dating therefore she wont sex me. OK I thought. I then offered her to come out on a date the following day.
The following day she came over for our date and we went out. We came back later in the evening and she got into the bed, and we had sex of which she stayed over that night.
The following day after that she saw me, and I tried to have sex again but she told me she wasnt in the mood.
The following day after that she came over, we had sex again and then she went home to go to sleep for work.
I then discussed with her a few days after that where this is headed and she said shes not ready for a relationship. She said she wasnt over her ex at one point, and then told me she was over her ex.
I told her Im not interested in being FB's or anything and Id rather be with a woman properly or not at all. She put the phone down and I thought well thats that and it was fun whilst it lasted. She started to text me how shes not ready and her ex was abusive etc etc. In the end she said good night and I said goodbye to her.
I dont understand. I layed her twice and it was going quite well then she comes out with this 'im not ready' crap - I got pissed off so I asked her whats the point of it? I'm not prepared to wait 2-3weeks whilst she makes her mind up as to how she feels about this. Shes either with me properly or not at all.
Opinions guys?
had a new neighbour move into the apartments where i live. the management agency gave her my phone number so her and I could arrange parking next to each other.
She texts me and I arrange to go over to talk to her. After discussing the parking she messages me saying thanks for coming over.
I then thought she was a nice girl so I thought id try to get with her. So I messaged her back making small talk and she was fairly receptive. Later that evening at 1am she offered for me to visit her at her apartment, but instead I asked her to come visit me. We spent the early morning together then she left to go home to sleep.
The following few days later she text me and I persuaded her to come over of which she said well if I come over I'd stay till 6am then go to work. I said thats cool, come and stay over. That evening after eating with her we went to bedroom and started to make out. She seemed as if she wanted sex but we never did - her saying that we're not dating therefore she wont sex me. OK I thought. I then offered her to come out on a date the following day.
The following day she came over for our date and we went out. We came back later in the evening and she got into the bed, and we had sex of which she stayed over that night.
The following day after that she saw me, and I tried to have sex again but she told me she wasnt in the mood.
The following day after that she came over, we had sex again and then she went home to go to sleep for work.
I then discussed with her a few days after that where this is headed and she said shes not ready for a relationship. She said she wasnt over her ex at one point, and then told me she was over her ex.
I told her Im not interested in being FB's or anything and Id rather be with a woman properly or not at all. She put the phone down and I thought well thats that and it was fun whilst it lasted. She started to text me how shes not ready and her ex was abusive etc etc. In the end she said good night and I said goodbye to her.
I dont understand. I layed her twice and it was going quite well then she comes out with this 'im not ready' crap - I got pissed off so I asked her whats the point of it? I'm not prepared to wait 2-3weeks whilst she makes her mind up as to how she feels about this. Shes either with me properly or not at all.
Opinions guys?