patrick.de
Don Juan
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So I have this girl in class who's 28 (I'm 22) and we've been chatting a bit every now and then. We met on a party last week, got hammered and banged that night.
She told me she didn't really like me in the beginning of the year but then changed her mind.
We exchanged numbers and talked through IM mostly, met two or three times at uni.
We had a seminar on wednesday at 4PM and I asked her if she wanted to go have a drink beforehand, she couldn't make it tho. After class I assumed she wanted to go home and when we said bye she turned and said "why don't we go grab a drink now?", so we did. We chatted and were talking about sex quickly, just like on IM. It's mainly her initiating sex talk through ambiguities.
We talked on IM an hour ago and I asked her what plans she had for the weekend, and she said she'd do this and that, and I said that's not very relaxing.
She interpreted this as "we should hang out and bang" and after a bit more of this kind of talk she went "I'm not just a vagina, I'm also a human being blabla..." and "according to you we'd just have sex all the time and never talk." She told me to sell her ticket for a party we planned to attend with some friends next week and went pretty damn cold on me.
I told her that it's in my genes to want to bang a ton and I'm just a guy, I'm sorry if I was too persuasive and tactless with it.
She said yeah, think about it, blabla and she'd tell me later if she wanted to come.
Yea, I guess was pushing her a bit, after we had some drinks I asked if she wanted me to come with her when I dropped her at the trainstation, but that's mostly it. All the ambiguous sex talk was initiated by her and she seemed to enjoy it. I even mentioned some regular stuff in-between so it doesn't sound too needy.
I realize now that I was kind of persuasive but is it really that bad? I know other people do nothing but banging all day long and girls dig it. Why did she go home with me that night in the first place if it isn't all about sex?
I can't imagine having a relationship with her, simply because of the age difference. Does she?
I'm steering towards a friends with benefits/****buddy solution and I don't think talking for three days and banging for one day is the defintion of that, is it?
Edit: That night she was very cuddly and all, is this a sign of relationship crap incoming?
She told me she didn't really like me in the beginning of the year but then changed her mind.
We exchanged numbers and talked through IM mostly, met two or three times at uni.
We had a seminar on wednesday at 4PM and I asked her if she wanted to go have a drink beforehand, she couldn't make it tho. After class I assumed she wanted to go home and when we said bye she turned and said "why don't we go grab a drink now?", so we did. We chatted and were talking about sex quickly, just like on IM. It's mainly her initiating sex talk through ambiguities.
We talked on IM an hour ago and I asked her what plans she had for the weekend, and she said she'd do this and that, and I said that's not very relaxing.
She interpreted this as "we should hang out and bang" and after a bit more of this kind of talk she went "I'm not just a vagina, I'm also a human being blabla..." and "according to you we'd just have sex all the time and never talk." She told me to sell her ticket for a party we planned to attend with some friends next week and went pretty damn cold on me.
I told her that it's in my genes to want to bang a ton and I'm just a guy, I'm sorry if I was too persuasive and tactless with it.
She said yeah, think about it, blabla and she'd tell me later if she wanted to come.
Yea, I guess was pushing her a bit, after we had some drinks I asked if she wanted me to come with her when I dropped her at the trainstation, but that's mostly it. All the ambiguous sex talk was initiated by her and she seemed to enjoy it. I even mentioned some regular stuff in-between so it doesn't sound too needy.
I realize now that I was kind of persuasive but is it really that bad? I know other people do nothing but banging all day long and girls dig it. Why did she go home with me that night in the first place if it isn't all about sex?
I can't imagine having a relationship with her, simply because of the age difference. Does she?
I'm steering towards a friends with benefits/****buddy solution and I don't think talking for three days and banging for one day is the defintion of that, is it?
Edit: That night she was very cuddly and all, is this a sign of relationship crap incoming?