I'm not going to be bothered with women until I look "older".

[DonJuan11]

Why?

I'm 25 years old and people still think I'm 19/20. I'm currently working at an organization as a consultant. Every time I meet someone new, I get the same response.

Usually a young, attractive chick (twenties) doesn't give me the time of the day.

An older, fat, ugly women will vocally say something like "how old are you?" or "you look like a kid".

Men usually look for my ID badge.

It's ****ing annoying and don't understand what it is about my looks that I look so young. I'm 5'10'' and 135lbs. Can that be it? I can't grow a beard but my mustache and chin hair grows thick. I only drank about 5 alcoholic beverages in my life, never did drugs, and rarely partied all night until 2 in the morning in my life. Can that be it?

I do know females probably find me attractive, but more in the "he's cute but too young". Only if they knew I was twenty-five. Older women give me more IOIs than females my age.

Looking young for a man (at my age) is NOT a good thing. If I look young at 40, then it IS a good thing.

Man I feel like a broken record.

Dude, again, it DOESN'T MATTER WHAT YOU FEEL. You are too focused on yourself. You have to come to terms with yourself and then you wouldn't post these angry and upset threads. "Don't people know I'm 25? How dare they think I'm 20? Don't they know who I am? That's not sexy thinking, that's not James Bond thinking, that's not "make my knees weak" for a girl thinking, that's "woe is me" thinking.

People are trying to help you. They tell and see it like it is. If you give them something they like, they will respond. If you don't, no matter what you think of yourself, how good you are, how good your skills are, how sexy you are, how tall you are, how funny you are, they won't and you will continue to blame them for your shortcomings.

Thank you and good night.

 

[nismo-4]

Go for 18 year olds, problem solved.

Nope, they won't give him the time of day. Make your manliness known.

 

[CaptainJ]

And put on some weight. Dude at 135lbs you probably look like a bag of antlers.

So, let let me get this straight...thin guys don't get as many women as bigger guys????? It's not like I'm bony with no muscle. I'm very muscular.

LOL at both statements. thewarrior, you are NOT muscular. You are just incredibly toned because you have no fat on you. It's like the example of the stick thin guy boasting his "6 pack". You need to gain 50lbs of muscle ATLEAST before you will no longer look skinny. Daunting isn't it, there's only one way to do it though, getting under the bar and get squatting!

www.stronglifts.com

Everything you need to get big and strong is there. Follow the stronglifts 5x5 routine which can be found on the website. Also begin drinking a gallon of full fat milk a day. You don't necessarily need to rigorously control what you eat, it does not need to be complicated. You just need to eat ****loads. Eat lots of protein, fat and carbs (carbs mainly for pre and post workout).

 

[Kerpal]

Rippetoe beginner program > Stronglifts

 

[Kidd]

you need to bulk the **** up, plain and simple. you will feel like a new person once you do

 

[gonnamakeit]

What ever happened to working on confidence and attributes women like? Instead of blaming **** on your looks. I look real young too the less I care about it and the more confidence and happiness I am getting the more girls like me. And we are lucky guys like us can get away with being much more direct and aggressive without girls getting scared (hell of a lot more fun for us). Plus it's awesome how it makes people more shoked when you are ballsy especially girls.(that'll make things easier) And also lift weights anyway. Another good thing girls LOVE the bady face muscular body combo.

I say do stronglifts.com 5x5 and do the djbc it's working great for me.

 

[Paintballguy]

Wah wah wah... Quit your *****ing. I have always looked very young, and I still pull hb's that are around my age. It's all about your personality and how you carry yourself. If you have the attitude of not getting any chicks because you look young, you won't get any...

Get your ass in the gym, and start lifting.

 

[thewarrior]

You need to gain 50lbs of muscle ATLEAST before you will no longer look skinny.

I'll be 185lbs. Isn't that more than what I should be weigh at 5'10''?

 

[thewarrior]

I'm kinda the same way, actually exactly the same, except I can grow facial hair (though I keep it shaved, habit from when I was a army officer) and I've drank more than 5 drinks (lol). But though I'm 25 ppl think I'm 17-19, which sucks sometimes. Like last week I went into a car dealer and they wouldn't give me the time of day because they didn't think I was serious. But whatever, you can still get girls looking young, just go for younger girls, works for me (though I prefer 18-19 year old girls anyways).

At least I'm not alone. Although I bought a car at 18 years old and didn't have a problem.

 

[gonnamakeit]

Whats this at least I am not alone crap? WE just told you it's in your head and how to fix your imaginary problem . thread title should of gave it away your here to whine not get a solution.

Look first thing to do when you have something you want to change is blame your self. It's MY fault I didn't get girls in the past cuz I didn't have the balls but it'll be MY fault when I am getting everything I desire (I have already due to blaming myself for my situations gotten tons of goals achieved). Take responsibility for your failure then you will change it then you will take responsibility for your success. You always hear about not being too hard on yourself most people aren't hard enough on themselves they just want to coddle themselves and say it's not their fault that they are in the situation they are in which means they'll never change their situation.

 

[Kal0051]

At least I'm not alone. Although I bought a car at 18 years old and didn't have a problem.

yeah, I eventually got some help, from a guy my age. It was just the older salesmen that didn't help me. Oh well, they missed out on the commission on a 40k car, lol.

 

[Joe Stud]

go to the health store & get some of the stuff the body builders eat to gain. then, wear clothing that makes you look bigger. experiment with a one or two day growth on your beard=so you have small stubble. maybe grow the sideburns longer. using a dull electric shaver leaves a small stubble. chase the 18-20 yr olds and also the milfs. change that insecure attitude and gain some confidence. start chasing women laddy

 

[thewarrior]

I appreciate all the tips.

Joe Stud, what clothes can make me look bigger?

 

[CaptainJ]

I appreciate all the tips.

Joe Stud, what clothes can make me look bigger?

Tight fitting clothes. But clothes aren't going to make you look wedge, weightlifting will. And yes, you need atleast 50lbs of muscle on you, to lose the skinny look.