bcude
Master Don Juan
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She didn't respect you enough not to stare at other guys in front of you early in the relationship with her wandering eyes, this is just the continuation of her lack of respect for you. It gets worse with time and you're now experiencing it. To live with a woman that doesn't respect you is a miserable existence that will eat you up.I got married last year and for the most part its been okay.
However, my situation is not looking too good atm.
My wife and i are constantly arguing to the point chit hits the fan. I can get pretty violent and hot headed.
Anyways, recently weve decided that when chit gets bad, we should both just let it go. If one is angry, the other just walks out.
However, it seems its only me whos doing this. Ive handled the situations without letting it get out of hand but theres no reciprocation from her end. Due to this, only just today i lost my chit.
In the early parts of the relationship, it was me who had issues with her. Now its the other way round. She always has something to argue about.Be it the smallest of things.
I dont want my relationship to be toxic but it seems to be going down that road.
No wonder. You can't fight emotions with logic. When she's angry/emotional you can't talk a woman out of that state no matter what you decided beforehand - you mostly ignore her whining and little tantrums until she calms down.Anyways, recently weve decided that when chit gets bad, we should both just let it go. If one is angry, the other just walks out.
However, it seems its only me whos doing this. Ive handled the situations without letting it get out of hand but theres no reciprocation from her end. Due to this, only just today i lost my chit.
Work on your emotions aswell, a man should stay centered and not be too bothered by a woman and get caught up in her whining, and that is on you.
Alot of experienced guys in here told you to dissolve your marriage a couple of months ago when she disrespected you because they've been in your situation and knew where it was headed. They knew this was coming and unfortunately it probably wont get much better from here.
This once agains highlights the importance of vetting a woman for a long time before you give her the ring. From LDR to marriage is gambling in my eyes.
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