I'm loosing it :(

[St0ryTeller]

Hey guys,

I need help fast... I am starting to loose everything I learned here.
First things first... I am getting infatuated, and as you all might already have guessed, it is destroying my abillity to think right and to act right with all this AFC thoughts coming to my mind.
And that is probably leading to a change of the IL of this girl, which a while ago i reckon had a really high IL.
I can't keep stop kicking myself hard enough for breaking the rules. And that is... talking to her whenever I can, and just now trying to chat with her on msn. Which oddly she's not replying.
I even got a friend of mine to check if she has a bf. Which in my current state of mind, I can't tell if that was wise or not.
Well... I really don't wanna loose this girl. But the most important is that I don't want to loose all that I've got right now by starting to act all AFC.
I just need a slap on my face to help me wake up. I just can't express how pi$$ed off I am with myself right now!
Well... my plan is to calm down and put myself together. And call her tomorrow to set up a date. I want to decide once and for all to stay or let go and leave. Because this is driving me crazy!
And I am running out of time. Because both of us r going overseas in a couple of months and we won't see each other until next year.
I think I really need some help now...

Cheerz,
Pi$$ed of Storyteller.

 

[suavedave]

Stop, do not pass go, do not collect $200. Go directly to http://www.pickupguide.com/classic/aff.htm.


Do this, read it WORD FOR WORD until these words come EFFORTLNESSLY into your subconscious and you experience the WONDERFUL feeling of CONFIDENCE. You will feel bright and not give a **** about this chick. Then, go find yourself about 5 other delicious chicks out there, and have a big smile on your face after they CHOOSE you and you know you are better than this douche bag.

 

[So pimp its scary]

Hey, it happens to the best of us.

This is how things have usually happened to me since I started.
a) Develop confidence
b) find woman
c) become infatuated
d) break-up
e) go into a slump
f) consider what was done well, what was done wrong and where improvement can be made
g) with new found confidence (which is at a higher level then a)) find women

I must have went through this cycle about 6-7 times, but I think that I've more or less broken that cycle now, I am fairly consistent in picking up women... and usually have reserves just in case. I KNOW that you will do the same. Remember, every time you fall down it's just a matter of time before you bounce back even higher then you were at first.

Good luck.

PS. the affirmations are great also... often before leaving the house, I will take a moment, strike a pose, look myself in the eye and say full voice "Pimpin'" that alone gets my juices started.

 

[St0ryTeller]

Thank you a lot guys!

I was really feeling so bad, as I was loosing control of the situation. And control of myself too.
I think the heat cooled down a bit, and I am more calm... I can think more clearly.
I'm not yet as good as before, and I can't deny that the infatuation is still there.. But I'm gonna try to understand it and control it.
And it was so funny how I was thinking to myself the other day. "i can't believe I am not infatuated about this girl, not like the old days hehe". And now this happens, how ironic.
Anyway... it's still a good idea to ask her out after I put myself together right?

Cheerz,
StoryTeller.

 

[The Business Man]

Losing your cool is just a part of it. At least you are growing though - you recognized the problem and looked for help! You didn't ask "What can I do to get my sweet love back?".

I'm glad you are feeling better about it, and don't worry that you are not completely over your infatuation. It kinda reminds me of the movie Bulletproof Monk where the guy says "water which is too pure has no fish".

I think that it would be a good idea for you to ask her out again before you two split, just to see if you can get your game together. Make sure you have your head on straight though, and then forget about her!

Remember, if you follow the rules, it's only a matter of time before these things aren't even problems anymore.

 

[suavedave]

So pimp its scary

So pimp its scary, you're missing one key point -- mLTR!

http://fastseduction.com/acronyms.shtml

 

[So pimp its scary]

Most people have to work there way up to being able to support multiple LTR's...

And I was simply assuming, based on his post, that he wasn't at that level yet. Honestly, I date multiple people at the same time, but have yet to have multiple gfs...

Most of the women that I ended up in relationshps with was when all others potential women had disqualified themselves... and in the end it's all been mistakes...

I would have included that, but I can't really talk about a level of game that I have yet to experience...

 

[St0ryTeller]

Thanks a lot for the feedback guys.
Yes, you are right So pimp its scary, I am not at the level where I could have multiple LTR. Well... maybe not yet
Anyway... I asked her out yesterday, but she had plans already. She sounded really excited on the phone, which I consider to be something surpising considering the shy and reserved person she looks like.
I've been spending a lot of effort on her, and I'm not getting any... I was thinking of nexting her, but it looks like I could need some improvement myself, and at least practice on her...
More to come later on...

 

[glowstix]

lol

you have 13 posts, you never really had mad game from surfing the board every once and a while... keep reading and stop thinking reading how to pick up chicks and start doing it.