I have a girlfriend. We've been together for a year now. I got her before I even got to know this site. I'm happy with her. We're both happy with each other. But, because of this site I feel I can find someone better. Like I said, I'm loosing it! I guess you can say confidence and skills equals hot chicks. The higher your confidence or skill level the hotter the chick you'll get. For the last couple of weeks my confidence definitely went higher than before and I now find those chicks I wouldn't usually have a conversation with to be closer than possible. Now I have so much more options when it comes to girls and now I feel like I don't want to settle down just yet since I'm only 20 years old. I'm loosing it. I want to learn more about women but at the same time I don't want to cheat. Is it possible to learn everything you need to know about women from just studying one woman such as my girlfriend?
I'm loosing it!
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So go get yourself a better chick. You might as well use the fact that you are already attached to your advantage to make you seem more hard to get, women like guys who are already taken. Do some 'branch swinging'. Why the hell not. Women do it to guys all the time.
You are acting like a woman. this is exactly the kind of **** that goes through womens heads while they have a bf.
If you like her and she is good to you and has many wifey skills then what is your problem?
there is nothing wrong with being 20 and finding that perfect girl for you. Why do you think that you have to be a wh0remonger?
If you like her and she is good to you and has many wifey skills then what is your problem?
there is nothing wrong with being 20 and finding that perfect girl for you. Why do you think that you have to be a wh0remonger?
I don't know man. I had no idea about all this dating game and being a challenge and everything. I went at her too quickly. I feel like I'm stuck with my girlfriend due to her family being close to me already. I should be content with what I have. I guess it's cuz I'm not getting anymore p*ssy as I used to. Is there a way I can get her to have sex with me more often like we used to?
damn!...I already stopped talking to her for a few days and she's already missing me. I don't know I guess I'm just loosing it. I keep forgetting that being a DJ is about self improvement and not being a wh0remonger like you said.00Kevin said:
I was the same way as you at the end of my five year relationship. I was feeling trapped because I had already invested so much time in our relationship, and because I was so used to hanging out with her family. But at the same time, I was not getting what I wanted out of the relationship - sexually, and emotionally.
You know what happened? I didn't break up with her because I thought we would find a way to work everything out. But she cheated on me and left me for another guy. If you are feeling like something is up with your relationship, there's a good chance she is thinking the same types of things. I would work on this, and if you decide it is not worth working out - go out and do some branch swinging. Set yourself up with a real hottie before ending it with this girl;
You know what happened? I didn't break up with her because I thought we would find a way to work everything out. But she cheated on me and left me for another guy. If you are feeling like something is up with your relationship, there's a good chance she is thinking the same types of things. I would work on this, and if you decide it is not worth working out - go out and do some branch swinging. Set yourself up with a real hottie before ending it with this girl;
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you guys must have fridget women or something. i can't even brush my teeth without my woman trying to give me a hummer. most men can't control their horniness and thats why women eventually control the relationship with sex.
maybe because i'm almost 30 and shes 21 and i just am too focused on my goals or something but my woman is practically clawing at me. the other day she was picking up a pair of my socks and i grabbed her and caressed the sh@t out of her and she went wild. thats how you keep attraction and sex coming in
maybe because i'm almost 30 and shes 21 and i just am too focused on my goals or something but my woman is practically clawing at me. the other day she was picking up a pair of my socks and i grabbed her and caressed the sh@t out of her and she went wild. thats how you keep attraction and sex coming in
i think you're exactly right. she is controlling the relationship with sex. i can tell she thinks i would cheat that's why she's not giving me any. i feel stupid when i tried dragging her into the bedroom and she wouldn't come with me. so now i stopped talking to her. i start focusing more on myself and my goals instead of her and getting sex. since i learned about this site i became more distant and she could tell i was already becoming a change man not being the doormat like i used to. i'm not begging her to have sex with me. she'll be the one begging me. you're absolutely right. she is controlling the relationship with sex thinking i'll be more attracted to her cuz she's afraid i'll leave her.insanity said:
you're exactly right. i'm not getting what i want from the relationship. i guess it's because i lack female connections or guy friends for that matter and i'm making the same mistake i've read all the guys had made. i'm always at her house giving her all the attention and i'm no challenge at all for her. thanks to this site though now i know what women are really looking for...wait so what were the mistakes you think you've made?...why'd she leave you?da_hunter said:
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She is a hor - and you are not her husband - so why the guilt in leaving a hor? You are just the next pimp in line - hors are not to be loved and cherished but pimped!!vagrant said:
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no sh-t, I've noticed that myself.da_hunter said:
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You are the emotional buffoons who read things emotionally as women do - when I say "hor" I say it as a matter of fact and with it's true meaning!!
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Don't be a fickle fish. No matter who you are with in your life, there will always be someone more attractive, a better deal out there thats available. Looking for the next best thing will never bring satisfaction. This is the stuff shallow girls do. Get a guy then get bored, and go looking for a better deal and dump the old one.
You dont have to marry the girl. If you dont want to be with her make sure its not because your looking for a hotter piece of ass. If thats the reason, smack yourself. Thats not a reason to dump a girl. And this doesnt mean fabricate a reason when she does something slightly wrong and blow it up to make it seem like her fault that it didnt work.
First you said you both were "happy with eachother", then your saying your not and shes been trying to control you sexually? You dont seem very sure. I believe your trying to find a reason to be mad with her, to justify moving on.
If theres one thing that this place tries to teach, that is to be a man. Being a man means taking RESPONSIBILITY. So if you decide to move on, take responsibility for your decision. This means do not wait for her to do something minor wrong. Do not blow up out of proportion something little she does, or find fault in her, so you can say its her fault the relationship didn't work out.
Say I'm not good for you, you deserve someone who appreciates you. If thats not enough of a reason for her, say im looking for a hotter piece of ass. Thats the reason right? If you feel like you'd be a d1ck to tell her the truth, then its because you are one. Don't be one.
You dont have to marry the girl. If you dont want to be with her make sure its not because your looking for a hotter piece of ass. If thats the reason, smack yourself. Thats not a reason to dump a girl. And this doesnt mean fabricate a reason when she does something slightly wrong and blow it up to make it seem like her fault that it didnt work.
First you said you both were "happy with eachother", then your saying your not and shes been trying to control you sexually? You dont seem very sure. I believe your trying to find a reason to be mad with her, to justify moving on.
If theres one thing that this place tries to teach, that is to be a man. Being a man means taking RESPONSIBILITY. So if you decide to move on, take responsibility for your decision. This means do not wait for her to do something minor wrong. Do not blow up out of proportion something little she does, or find fault in her, so you can say its her fault the relationship didn't work out.
Say I'm not good for you, you deserve someone who appreciates you. If thats not enough of a reason for her, say im looking for a hotter piece of ass. Thats the reason right? If you feel like you'd be a d1ck to tell her the truth, then its because you are one. Don't be one.
okay i guess i haven't been honest...the truth is i'm only 19 and she's only 16...we've never had sex before cuz she wants me to wait till she turns 18...i was fine with that, but for the last couple of weeks we stopped doing the fun things such as making out and her giving me a hand job...she never even gave me a bl0wjob cuz she said it's just too hard for her...i love getting down on her...when i see her lookin all hot i just can't wait to take her into the room and do my thing but that too had suddenly stopped...okay you're all probably thinking i'm stupid already for staying with her but she's a real keeper...she's not the hottest piece of a$s out there but we get a long really well...like i said we're both happy with each other...i'm one of the biggest AFC out there but i'm trying to improve myself more and more...i guess that's the reason why i'm bothered now...i keep thinking what a real DJ would do in my situation...i keep thinking a real DJ won't let sh!t like this happen...now i'm thinking if i can't get what i want then i'm leaving which is very stupid. but, i just can't help it cuz i feel like i'm being challenge with all this DJ sh!t and being a man and all that...for my age, having a girlfriend who won't give you sex cuz she's too young for that sh!t or w/e is like being in a jail cell with a hot a$s chick out the metal bar dancing in front of you...i wanna stay with her cuz i feel it's hard to find another chick like her cuz she loves me so much that i don't see her ever cheating on me and i do love her too...we've actually just talked about this and she told me it was stupid that i'm leaving her just cuz she wasn't going to have sex with me yet...she doesn't understand though...i'm a guy and i look forward to that sh!t...if she'd ask me i'd say hell yeah i wanna have sex with you all day...that's one of the reason why i dated you...uhhh well, with the information i just gave you all i guess you're now at least able to put yourself in my shoes and help me handle this situation... = /
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How ironic, "It's too hard for a blow job" ??????????????vagrant said:
Stupid hor!!!!! Just lick it like the hor who you are!!!!!!!!!
She is a hor!!!!! A 16 y/o HOR AT THAT!!! Do NOT pursue this HOR - TROUBLE - I REPEAT TROUBLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Do NOT pursue this 16 year old HOR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Tell the hor to go to HOR HELL!!!!!
UNDERAge hors are illegal and deadly - physically, mentally, and spiritually!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!