Okay, listen guy, ur being a fvcking afc. These guys on here are all right. Ur getting played and ur getting played hard. This girl has u wipped. ur like her fvcking girlfriend. U dont talk to girls on the phone when they phone u out of the blue at 1 in the fvckin morning. Ur way too available for this girls and i think that is what is mostly killing ur chances. If they cant rescpect u, then they cannot love u.
Alright, so what do u do about ur situation. Ur main goal here is to try to get the boyfriend out of the picture. U accomplish this by making him look bad by acting like a fvckin dj urself. This girl is a 10, which means that the boyfriend must be head over heals for her too, which means that he must posess some afc qualities too.
This is what u do. STOP ALL COMMUNICATION WITH THIS GIRL. Im talking about MSN/AIM, email, phone calls, facebook, EVERYTHING. I dont even want u talking to her through 2 tin cans with a string attached to them. Every little bit of contact with this girl must be stopped immediatedly. Right now u are way too afc for this girl, and in order to get her u have to become a CHALLENGE. Dont pick up the phone when she calls, make her wonder what has happend to u.
When u become a challenge she will begin to wonder about u, and it will expose any interest that she has in u. eventually, she will find a way to hunt u down and intiate contact with u. If she does then u have to continue to play hard to get and let her initiate anything.
If she doesnt call u, or find a way to contact u then im afraid ur out of luck and u are officially in the friendzone.
Remember, This girl is a 10, which means that she has never been rejected in her life. When u disappear on her, she'll go nuts (assuming there is still interest on her part). I know this sound like a crazy thing to do, but lets face it, its ur only option buddy. So grab a hold of ur fvckin balls and play some hardball. Remember, being a challenge is the only way ur gonna win this girl.
p.s. stop being an afc, read the bible.