hi. one of my very close friends has been seeing this girl for around 2 months and hes told me about her and how he had just told her that he didnt want a commitment, but i never met her until the other night when we went to the bar.so heres how the story goes i met up with them at the bar, we had a few drinks got pretty tipsy, went to his place and crashed,woke up late for work and so he asked if i could bring her home and of course i said yes,so he left for work and me and her started talking and i learned some really cool stuff about her, and what kind of person she was.she is really the perfect girl (soul mate?) that i want to be with and i cant stop thinking about her,and she dropped a few hints that seemed like she was also interested in me.so if that is the case does anyone have any ideas on how i should go about this?
im in love with my very close friends woman?please help!!!!!!!
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if she will leave your best friend, she'll leave you too
if she doesnt leave, your friend will still be pissed
go search up "oneitis"
if she doesnt leave, your friend will still be pissed
go search up "oneitis"
Bonhomme
Master Don Juan
Just concentrate on others for now. If they break up, then she's fair game, and your buddy would be immature to have issues with it.
I've not had any problem with a friend of mine dating one of my exes. In fact, I was glad, because I knew he'd treat her well.
But as long as they're still dating, she's off limits.
I've not had any problem with a friend of mine dating one of my exes. In fact, I was glad, because I knew he'd treat her well.
But as long as they're still dating, she's off limits.
MacAvoy
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Don't listen to them, they don't know what they are talking about. You only have one soulmate in this world. Its a dog eat dog world out there and if you want something you have to take it.
Get her alone, profess your undying love for her, how much you truly care for her and will make all her dreams come true. If your the one in a million that this doesn't work for, because we all know that women want the fairy tell, then and only then as a very last resort, reading the bible is the very very last thing you might try. But be careful, I hear there's some pretty awful stuff in there, that's the only reason why I can think that the new people to the board don't read it.
Get her alone, profess your undying love for her, how much you truly care for her and will make all her dreams come true. If your the one in a million that this doesn't work for, because we all know that women want the fairy tell, then and only then as a very last resort, reading the bible is the very very last thing you might try. But be careful, I hear there's some pretty awful stuff in there, that's the only reason why I can think that the new people to the board don't read it.
Pimp-sicle
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I think his username sums up this situation and his knowledge on women perfectly.
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Vulpine
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:crackup:MacAvoy said:
Boy, that is just what I needed on a Monday morning.
Dont do it. Be nice n friendly to girl but not too friendly.
Honestly, depends on how good of friends you are. If she gave hints.. (not you FEELing they are hints.. ur mind could be clouded to perceive that), then tell your bro that its what you sensed and whether or not they were serious anymore?
Honestly, depends on how good of friends you are. If she gave hints.. (not you FEELing they are hints.. ur mind could be clouded to perceive that), then tell your bro that its what you sensed and whether or not they were serious anymore?
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If your buddy has made it clear to her he doesn't want a commitment, bullsh!t posturing aside, then that leaves you an open window. If she makes it clear that she wants to have a seat on the 'stache then please do it. Don't fvcking call it love though. Jesus, do with her what you will then broom her off.
My brother went through a similar situation. Problem is he ended up marrying the b!tch. Luckily, he got smart and divorced the skank.
My brother went through a similar situation. Problem is he ended up marrying the b!tch. Luckily, he got smart and divorced the skank.
penkitten
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leave it alone, shes into your friend . even if he doesnt want a committment with her , shes still into him.
if things change and he still doesnt want a committment and she suddenly wants you and shows affection, then you can reconsider.
if things change and he still doesnt want a committment and she suddenly wants you and shows affection, then you can reconsider.
BBX
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This made me laugh out loud...you're getting oneitiskonfu$ed said:
Faded Image
Senior Don Juan
Go ahead and hit it. You're a grown man and if that's your desire go for it.
You're friend will only be mad at you for a little while lol.
But on the real! You have to take into account what's important to you. If this girl leaves your friend for you, she will eventually leave for another. Then you'll be out of a good friend and the B*tch you stole. I've done things like this before and even though I never felt bad about it, it wansn't worth the risk I took.
You're friend will only be mad at you for a little while lol.
But on the real! You have to take into account what's important to you. If this girl leaves your friend for you, she will eventually leave for another. Then you'll be out of a good friend and the B*tch you stole. I've done things like this before and even though I never felt bad about it, it wansn't worth the risk I took.
Don Juanabbe
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Dude, there's no hope for you. I suggest you turn gay.konfu$ed said:
What a pathetic post.