Well I figured at some point and time this would happen. I've moved off to college. Some of you may say "well thats the window of opportunity," well yea that window is the one in my apartment that I always look out of while I'm by myself. You see I had many many friends in my hometown. I was hardly ever bored. Then I moved to college and got a little single bed room apartment, didn't know anyone.
I've met a few guys here thats actually from my town, but all they wanna do is hang out in there apartment and get loaded. I wanna go and meet girls. Yea I've got a few numbers here and there at parties, and then after I call them they can't seem to remember which guy I was. (These were all fraternity parties.)
I frequent this site and have for a while, but right now I need some confidence and motivation. I just turned 21 so I suppose I could go do the bar scene, but its like I know there is so much out there, even at the university. I just can't find it. I go to my classes by myself, and then come home by myself and sit by myself until I go to bed or go to my next class.
I want something to do in between all this. Do I just go out and randomly approach girls, do I try and make new guy friends? I really don't know. I know that this is my life and its ending one minute at a time, but I just can't get the motivation to go out and do NEW things and get out of my comfort zone.
I need something from you guys to make me get off my ass and be optimistic.:yawn:
I've met a few guys here thats actually from my town, but all they wanna do is hang out in there apartment and get loaded. I wanna go and meet girls. Yea I've got a few numbers here and there at parties, and then after I call them they can't seem to remember which guy I was. (These were all fraternity parties.)
I frequent this site and have for a while, but right now I need some confidence and motivation. I just turned 21 so I suppose I could go do the bar scene, but its like I know there is so much out there, even at the university. I just can't find it. I go to my classes by myself, and then come home by myself and sit by myself until I go to bed or go to my next class.
I want something to do in between all this. Do I just go out and randomly approach girls, do I try and make new guy friends? I really don't know. I know that this is my life and its ending one minute at a time, but I just can't get the motivation to go out and do NEW things and get out of my comfort zone.
I need something from you guys to make me get off my ass and be optimistic.:yawn: