jbbrain
Master Don Juan
I feel like when I was 19, 3 years ago and I came across the board..
I am in an LTR and I guess I feel "out of my element"..I notice that since Ive been with her exclusively, I cant get enough of the relationship material on this site.
Its become addictive again and I am starting to obsess over it.
I am really trying hard to listen to Tesuque's and Mr. Fingers' repective advices about just letting go in order to learn more about yourself as well as learnign to have a more fulfilling LTR.
Its hard to put into practice when all of these "techniques" on this forum have helped me bag so many chciks when I was single. Its like I dont trust myself or the girl enough to "just let go"..I am a monster feeding on this knowledge, claiming the unrealistic goal of Perfection. Its like im not comfortable enough to just dive in without knowing everything there is to know, and things I should be wary about, in an LTR.
To tell you the truth, the whole thing is a big turn off. I really dont know what to do..will this phase pass as I naturally become more in tune with my gf? Or will it only grow more intense?
Im starting to feel that I would be happier being single, simply worrying if Ill be "getting laid" again (although of course this is something Im not concerned about). At the same time, I would fel like a total cop out by not meeting the challenge of an LTR with a genuinely great girl.
Any thoughts fellas?
I am in an LTR and I guess I feel "out of my element"..I notice that since Ive been with her exclusively, I cant get enough of the relationship material on this site.
Its become addictive again and I am starting to obsess over it.
I am really trying hard to listen to Tesuque's and Mr. Fingers' repective advices about just letting go in order to learn more about yourself as well as learnign to have a more fulfilling LTR.
Its hard to put into practice when all of these "techniques" on this forum have helped me bag so many chciks when I was single. Its like I dont trust myself or the girl enough to "just let go"..I am a monster feeding on this knowledge, claiming the unrealistic goal of Perfection. Its like im not comfortable enough to just dive in without knowing everything there is to know, and things I should be wary about, in an LTR.
To tell you the truth, the whole thing is a big turn off. I really dont know what to do..will this phase pass as I naturally become more in tune with my gf? Or will it only grow more intense?
Im starting to feel that I would be happier being single, simply worrying if Ill be "getting laid" again (although of course this is something Im not concerned about). At the same time, I would fel like a total cop out by not meeting the challenge of an LTR with a genuinely great girl.
Any thoughts fellas?
this will keep your skills sharp and ever watchful - so u dont revert to afc status.