I'm in a crazy situation..

[vagrant]

I've been in a LDR for almost one and a half years now. I've went back twice already, stayed a week each and had a great time. I really like the girl, love even. We've been together for more than three years.

I don't know when I'll be coming back but the girls in my area are just forcing me to commit something that will surely ruin the relationship that I have with my girl.

Obviously, a lot of you are already thinking that I'm stupid for being in an LDR. Yes I'am too young but I definitely have oneitis for my girl. If she just lives nearby I wouldn't have any problems.

Anyways, we've talked about it. She's telling me I can do whatever I want but she'll do whatever she wants also. We'll break up for now or whatever. Obviously I don't want her sleeping with another guy. Again I know a lot of you will tell me that I can't be selfish to my girl. She said she'll make out with guys and I can f*ck or whatever. I say hell no!

Ever since I moved to another state all I've been doing is improving myself every single day. My confidence is high and a lot of chicks are attracted to me and I wouldn't have a hard time getting a girl but this oneitis sh*t is killing me.

I want to have fun and enjoy being single but my girl won't let me. She's been good to me and did everything she can to make me stay and I tell her I'm not going anywhere.

But damn all these college chicks are just too damn fine. I feel like if I have sex with one of them I'll forget my girl or something. I guess I don't want to ruin what I have but at the same time I want to play around.

I just don't know what to do. Is there anyone out there that can relate or had been there done that? I need advice!

 

[J Roc]

LOL @ being in a LDR while in college. have fun while you are young! the serious relationships will come later on..

 

[Infamous_Wolf]

Dude I'm gonna throw this out there, but I'm pretty sure she's already been with other guys in some fashion whilst you've been seperated. Don't be naive friend, I can *garauntee* that there is nothing this girl has to offer that you can't get in close proximity. you also need to be fine with not being in a relationship at all. why not just be frakkin' single and save yourself this whole mess? you stop thinking about what she's doing. you can still be f*ck buds perhaps, but there is no reason you should be confining yourself to an exclusive relationship in which you are only seeing a girl twice for a week at a time during the course of *a year and a half*. You want her so bad because it's human nature to desire what is in low supply. If there was an annoucement tomorrow that there was going to be a shortage of grain this year and that bread was going to become scarce, people would buy up every loaf in sight. you may only see this woman very rarely, so your human nature pushes you to desire her more than anything else. Don't do this to yourself bro, let it go and live your life, you only get one.