I'm I off-base here?

[zekko]

3. Chicks with lots of guy friends are trouble because they tend to be attention sluts. When women say they don't get along with other females, that often translates to women not putting up with their bs whereas men do simply because they're female and want to sleep with her. See also: orbiters.

Right. A lot of times girls will say "I mainly have guy friends, girls are too catty and all drama, guys are so much cooler, they're all chill and laid back". And guys will accept this because hey, it makes sense. But it's actually a red flag.

All these guy friends are a constant source of attention and validation for her. She is used to having this fed to her, and will not want to give it up.

 

[Buddha_Mind]

I agree with everything said here from all of my past experience. Women with a lot of male friends = attention wh0res and really, I feel it does truly undermine a relationship by either partner spending all of their time with their best "bud" of the opposite sex -- the sexual friction is still present...I feel for you man. IDK -- I think you already know the appropriate answer and solution.

 

[iqqi]

I definitely believe men and women can be just friends, as some of my best friends in life are men.

However there are definitely some off things in this scenario, which have already been pointed out. I side with everyone who says be aware.