i'm good at dancing...

[Puppetpopper333]

the situation is that i'm pretty good at dancing(popping and locking), and it seems that the girls love it when i dance. for example a girl i know would ask me to dance for her but it seems like after i dance for her she gives me the cold shoulder and i can't get any play. so my question is could my dancing be used as a tool to attract women more than repel them?...or should i not dance at all for them and give them "the cold shoulder"? thanx

 

[fbplayer06]

If I were you, I wouldn't start dancing just because some girl asks you to. Make them work for the sight of your good moves...read the DJ bible if you haven't already. ;-)

 

[splinterkb]

Cut out before she has a chance to. This will get her thinking she's doing something wrong, and she'll try harder. Try it out.

 

[Patrick124]

I can liquid[learnin to pop kinda] and its not the best girl-attracting dance-style.
At a rave, sure raver-chicks might flcok to you, but at a school dance I do minor liquids[mainly arm-waves all around my body] as a joke. gets em laughing.

If you can pop n ****, I assume you can bounce to a beat, just learn to freak/grind[so easy if u can keep a beat. I was told i was a -great- dancer the 1st night i ever tried grinding].
If you live in a prodominently white/non-gang related area, and cripwalking won't get your ass shot/beaten, try to learn that ****. Its sick as hell, n girls seem to like it
good luck bro

EDIT: Thanks Julian. If you've seen it at a rave[assuming you actually know what liquiding is, not confusing it for some other rave-style dance] some people make it look sick as hell...its jsut when people do it outta place to like N*Sync, yeah its retarded.
bah w/e, your opinion

 

[Julian]

that liquid **** looks gay as hell.

 

[Bombshell]

I dance at school all the time but when a HB asks for it i usually say they dont deserve it or say it will cost them money. If they are hot i get them to sing/dance with me then tell them how much they owe afterward (I like to throw in some stripper moves =D)

 

[UltimateScoundrel]

Originally posted by fbplayer06
If I were you, I wouldn't start dancing just because some girl asks you to. Make them work for the sight of your good moves...read the DJ bible if you haven't already. ;-)

Make them work to see your good moves....

They have to earn the grace of your totally cool moves....


That's a load of bull****. Dance if you feel like dancing. If you don't, don't. It's pretty simple.

 

[Duke]

No, it's not a "load of bullshyt." It's one of the primary concepts of attraction. It's called "BEING A CHALLENGE." The more someone has to work for something, the more rewarding it is when they get it, and they will NOT want to let go.

Don't ever just dance on command for girls if they haven't done anything to earn it. You give away power for free. It's the same concept when you buy dinner for them or hold the door open for no reason. Why are you doing this for them?? Because society brainwashed you into thinking it's how you get into their pants.

WRONG.

 

[UltimateScoundrel]

Originally posted by Duke
No, it's not a "load of bullshyt." It's one of the primary concepts of attraction. It's called "BEING A CHALLENGE." The more someone has to work for something, the more rewarding it is when they get it, and they will NOT want to let go.

Don't ever just dance on command for girls if they haven't done anything to earn it. You give away power for free. It's the same concept when you buy dinner for them or hold the door open for no reason. Why are you doing this for them?? Because society brainwashed you into thinking it's how you get into their pants.

WRONG.

How is dancing preventing you from being a challenge?

It's not.

If a girl asked you on a date would you say no, to be a challenge?

Would you refuse sex?

No.

You can dance if you want to. It won't hurt. If you're a good dancer it will be probably make her more attracted to you.

By dancing you don't "give away power." Do you really think women test guys to see if they can get them to dance? I don't. I know they don't. Women want you to dance with them so you can both have fun and make a connection. If that goes against the "Laws of Attraction," then my name is Mud.

Being a challenge is also flawed as well. Women aren't hard-wired to chase after men. It's a man's role to go out there and get the date, do the wooing. Pretending to be uninterested is the exact opposite of that.

Society didn't brainwash anyone. Holding doors isn't going to make a woman think you're a wuss. I hold doors for men and women. It's just polite. If you let a door slam in your date's face, guess what, she won't think it's a turn-on.