DJDamage said:
For a very high status man, filtering won't do you any good when you are dealing with a very high interest woman who's game plan is a long term security by marrying you and having your kids thus she can "chameleon" herself to be the perfect woman in your eyes (feminine, agreeable, fvcks when ever you feel like it and doesn't nag or argues)
It is no wonder why many celebrity marriages end in divorce because the woman shows her true colours once she feels secured that a divorce would also make her rich.
It is why guys like George Clooney and Charlie Sheen have caught on that marriage won't give you long term bliss once they give the woman what she wants (marriage) but as long as they keep their women at arms length, then they can dictate the path of the relationship better.
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some women take longer to figure out, but all women can be classified.
Your example, assumes that the man is looking at what the woman's wants, and not her motives. You have to learn to look past what a woman wants, and figure out, to the best of your ability why she wants it.
there is no rule saying that sluts don't want to get married. Just because a woman wants to "have your kids" doesn't mean she isn't a slut.
Take, one scenario.. a woman sees a guy who is doing well for himself and she is attracted to him, and she wants to settle down with him and goes outy of her way to the best of her ability to do so.
What you have to do, is take that one event, and learn how to look at it from three perspectives.
A slut, might be getting a little up there in age, say late 20's and due to peer pressure, and she doesn't want to become the woman that is a little bit too old t be "out" all the time, and sees you as "that's the guy I'm supposed to marry" and acts accordingly.
A hoe, might just see you as their meal ticket, and will act accordingly.
And a LTR will see you for you, and like the good characteristics about you. The same reasons you are well off is the same reason she will be drawn to you.
This **** goes deeper than "don't pay for dates".. a prudent hoe, won't even ***** about stuff like that because she is investing in you. This is another reason I believe so strongly in the plate theory. It puts women in situations where they HAVE to act, and they HAVE to show judgments and you get to make decisions based off those judgments, not some fake, everything is perfect "exlucsive" relationship right off the bat. Plate spinning is as much about screening as it is about keeping the options open. One girl doesn't mind you calling or coming by that much as long as when you do, you guys do it big..the other is very happy to see you and doesn't complain at all when you don't call but is very happy to see you and ****s your brains out when you do see her.. you probably got a good old fashioned slut on your hand. She will give you token let's settle down pressure but she doesn't mean it, but that's what she is supposed to do so she does it. A girl that when you meet her, is really really like she is on a time schedule to do everlasting, like okay we have been dating for 3 months now we need to move in together.. it's 1 year where's my ring.. that woman doesn't love you. that's a woman that loves the idea of being married, and you fit the description of someone she should marry. probably a hoe.
