Originally posted by Real Man
Being nice is what makes them fall in love with you......Nice as in masculine nice...not puppy dog nice. Chivalry, gentlemanly.
You can't act like a jerk and expect her feelings to get deeper and deeper.
Be independent, strong, in control.....a real man....but do be tender and nice to her......only after she earns it though.
This was a married woman i was fuking at work. She basically wanted me and i was tempted and started fuking her. Things got a little serious with her....she wanted me to start making love to her and even spoke of serious stuff.......i told her to go back to her husband. She started crying and played games with me....like saying 'oh, i feel so rejected and its not nice'...she basically wanted me to keep fuking her.....she was using emotional black mail. I did not fuk her again and she said she respected me for being so disciplined. She tried every seduction technique in the book but i am a strong mofo and said no!.
Notice: 'curious mix of power and gentleness'.........this is what she finds irresistible.
Power = Big strong masculine guy.
Gentleness = fuked if i know.....god knows what she found gentle about me...maybe she felt i could be nice...dunno
I then told her to calm down and we stop ****ing and go back to her husband as she belonged to him not me. She was crying and all that. I told her that we should be friends and she is...not like girly friend though.....women never become girly friends with me...maybe because they see me as fukable....if a woman acts around you like she does with her friends...be afraid...very afraid...ha!. She send this email when i offer support due to a problem she is going through.
anyway this women is crazy about me and what made her so was that curious mix of power and gentleness......a rough tough masculine bloke who can be gentle sometimes but only with her.
What are your opinions on this? Niceness has a place me thinks.