I'm going to a black fraternity party next Friday even though I'm white, what to do?

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Hello, I'm going to a black fraternity party next Friday even though I'm white, what should I do there? My best friend's fraternity is having a party, and it seems like a great opportunity to have fun and open some sets of women. I will be one of the very few white people there, so it will definitely be an event to get out of my comfort zone. And more than likely, I will not be the man that women desire there in the beginning. Because it's a black fraternity party, what are women looking for there? But that's ok, I'm looking forward to it. I want to be able to act as alpha as possible in that setting and to keep my nervousness to a minimum. I don't care how successful or unsuccessful I am there. But I want to open sets without hesitation, dance with women I don't know, and possibly use the Apocalypse Opener on someone if all else fails(I may do that at the end of the night to see what happens).
The negatives: I can't dance well, I've been prone to nervousness in those environments, and I haven't had much success with women in my life.
What should I do there, and what should I expect as well?
 

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It's a bunch of college kids doing college kid stuff. You make it sound like you're walking into Compton.

What should you do? Drink. Have fun. Laugh.
 

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Ease said:
Keep an eye on your wallet.


Your an idiot...but to the OP ...just have fun though. It's nothing to be worried about.... P.S. I'm black so I should know...I hung out with a white friend at a mostly white strip club and then we went across the street to a mostly black club and he fitted in perfectly
 

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if you're asking about this from now....you're obviously out of your comfort zone. just chill and relax.

If you don't speak ghetto...DONT walk round saying SUP DAWG. It'll look try hard, just be your normal self.
 

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say the n-word, they'll respect you for it
 

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Y'all are trippin over this. Who cares if your black or white. Just act normal smh. No need for all this rascist talk in here.
 

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Pierce said:
Y'all are trippin over this. Who cares if your black or white. Just act normal smh. No need for all this rascist talk in here.
This. Just go there and enjoy yourself as you normally would. Unless there is a sign on the door saying "No whites allowed", don't make race an issue.
 

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Your best friend is in the fraternity? Then you're all set. I found that color usually doesn't hurt in fraternity parties but in a lot of cases actually helps. Usually in my experiences black fraternities throw parties with either black or latin fraternities/sororities. I've been to a few and they actually throw bangin parties and me being white didn't make me treated any differently. Just forgot this whole color nonsense and enjoy your best friend's birthday and help make it one he will remember.
 

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