im goin crazy, someone help me out!

wonderingwhy

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ok i met this new girl, shes really hot. i talked with her for a few minutes and she seemed really nice, she kept lookin at me and **** so i asked her out that night "it was friday" she gave me her number and adress and told me to be there at 5. so i showed up and she was all ready lookin beutifull. we went to the movies and saw bad santa. we made out there. we got some food at a local burger place, they have the best stuff "it was her choice". i asked her what she wanted to eat, and she said "hell no ur not payin for me thats fked up" im like. naw really i got it. she sayd no really i dont like guys paying for my food. so im like, alright thats chill, then we took off to the beach, where we walked around a lil bit, and found different animals and stuff in the sky made outa stars. we made out at the beach also. we went dancing at a little club, there wasnt a lot ofpeople there but it was still fun, cuz i was with her. i took her home around 12 cuz we were both really tired, when we arrived at her place we made out in the car for about 5 minutes, then she went inside.

im 17 years old, shes 16, everything about that night seemd right, she gave off so many signals that she really liked me, when we were in the movies, i put my arm around her cuz she was cold, and she started rubbing my knee, and getting close and ****. so we started makin out there. but i called her the next day to see what she was doin and shiz, i was gone outa town so i knew we couldnt chill. she was christmas shopping. i called sunday to make sure she had a ride to school, cuz shes a new student, and her mom works early in the morning. monday comes around and i see her after 4th period, so im like, hey u wanna go grab some lunch, ill introduce u to some people. she tells me "no not today, aaron (girl) is going to introduce me to some of her friends. im fine with this i completely understand. tuesday i dont see her, im gone all night with some friends, we go to see the new Lord of the rings movie at midnight, so i call her around 8 just to see whats up, we decide to chill at lunch the next day at school. i see her at lunch we walk out to the front of the school, and she says, "my friends comin to take me out to lunch cuz he doesnt have school today", i chuckled a lil bit and was like, aite late. wednesday night im like, wow is she avoiding me? so i call her up and talk to her, i was told to tell her how i feel by numerous girls im friends with. no joke, shes on my mind 24\7. i call her up and tell her "i really enjoyed friday night, i hope there will be somethin more between us, i dunno bout u but thats how i feel" she says "yea i had a great time too, its just hard to fit in right now being the new girl and ****, id ont know yd u think id avoid u" but when i see her at school its kind of different. i get the feeling that shes avoiding me. but others say shes not. what should i do here? i really like her alot, shes the kinda girl id want a relationship with. help me out im goin crazy here
 

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One thing I notice right off the bat, you're obsessed with her.

Calling her for 4 straight days?. Thats not allowed, ever.

Of course she's avoiding you, hell, if a girl called me at every waking moment, I'd take out a restraining order against her :).

Try some detachment, fight your way out of this oneitis thats developing.

Also, call maybe 1-2 times per week. Just fluff and set dates up, talk all you want then.
 
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Originally posted by CrombieStyle
Also, call maybe 1-2 times per week. Just fluff and set dates up, talk all you want then.
Try not to talk too long on the phone with her. Save the convo for in person where things are more personal.
Other than that, solid advice.
 

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Thats what I ment, talk all you want on the dates, keep the phone short and simple.
 

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Originally posted by CrombieStyle
Thats what I ment, talk all you want on the dates, keep the phone short and simple.
Ahh, I see the use of the comma now :D
 

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dude, i was just like you. Just dont worry about it man. My biggest problem back then was worrying. My problem back then was also givin girls too much attention and not knowin when to back off a little. Just back off a little bit for a couple days. Hell, it might work if you just plain ignored her. I know itd be hard to do, but seriously, just ignore her for a couple days. If she doesnt come up to you to see whats goin on or if she still doesnt seem too interested after that, then u need to forget her.
 

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Originally posted by wonderingwhy
any way to recover from my insanity?
Get her out of your mind. Go out with other girls, hang out with your boys, go to the gym.
 
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