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I saw a young gal and went with my usual "Are you single" line, and she didn't even answer the question.

The first thing she asked was "How old are you", and when I told her..

It was end of discussion :lol:.
happens a lot! don't believe the cope about how young girls don't care about age lol. I tend to mostly go for teenagers! (and i'm nearly as old as you lol)
SOME don't care (if they think you are still very hot), but most will write you off completely if you are over a certain age
Gotta just keep going! Sometimes I hit the lottery and even surprise myself
 

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Bruh, I like your bank robbery, more direct style of approach. I think direct game has a very important place in game. My style is more indirect as I open with some observation, chat somewhat, then transition into asking her on a drinks date.
I see.

Very, conventional...to say the least.

Grocery stores are my favorite venue. I rarely approach in Walmart. Kroger-branded stores are the stores where I've arranged the most dates.
Yeah, man..Walmart is too low-class for you hahahaa
 

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Yeah, man..Walmart is too low-class for you hahahaa
I have done grocery store approaches at a lot of different places. I didn't expect to arrange more dates at Kroger & Albertsons type places as compared to Whole Foods & Sprouts type places.

There used to be a thing in pickup circles in the 2010s about doing approaches at Whole Foods. I have found Whole Foods to be overrated as an approach place.

I've not done enough approaching in Walmart over time.
 

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happens a lot! don't believe the cope about how young girls don't care about age lol. I tend to mostly go for teenagers! (and i'm nearly as old as you lol)

SOME don't care (if they think you are still very hot), but most will write you off completely if you are over a certain age
Gotta just keep going! Sometimes I hit the lottery and even surprise myself
Definitely gonna keep it pushing.

It only increases my drive.
 

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I have done grocery store approaches at a lot of different places. I didn't expect to arrange more dates at Kroger & Albertsons type places as compared to Whole Foods & Sprouts type places.
Yup, it just all depends on the type of women who suits your fancy.

I worked at Albertsons for a lil while and there were some BODIES coming through there on occasions. Still wouldn't be one of my choices for day game, though.

Same thing with Safeway..both of those stores..

1. The mere quality of women patrons who frequent those stores on an average day, doesn't suit my fancy.

2. Neither of those stores have enough locations to satisfy a typical day of titty hunting, for me.

Sprouts, I had a job that took me through there every week, and I cosign your assessment of the quality of women you'll see there. I had no idea.

But the same thing with Sprouts, not enough locations to keep me happy.

I've heard great things about Wholefoods and Trader Joes, but it seems as if there are even less locations for those stores than there are with Albertsons and Safeway (and that's saying a lot).

Walmart and Fry's, on the other hand :devil: :devil:

There used to be a thing in pickup circles in the 2010s about doing approaches at Whole Foods. I have found Whole Foods to be overrated as an approach place.
I gotta see what's up with Whole Foods.

Never been.

I've not done enough approaching in Walmart over time.
Yeah, leave Walmart to me :devil:.
 

At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

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Walmart and Fry's, on the other hand :devil: :devil:
Fry's Food & Drug in Arizona is a Kroger brand store. Doing approaches at Fry's is the same as doing approaches in Kroger in US states where the Kroger brand exists.

Albertsons and Safeway
Albertsons and Safeway merged in 2015. Safeway is a sub-brand of Albertsons.

Albertsons and Safeway branded stores have similar environments.

In Metro Dallas, Tom Thumb was a Safeway owned brand when the 2015 merger happened. The Tom Thumb brand is the major Albertsons brand around the Dallas-Fort Worth area, though there are a couple of Albertsons locations scattered.

For you, think about the differences between Albertsons/Safeway and Fry's.

I can imagine that Albertsons/Safeway stores don't tend to bring in bigger titted women. It's slightly more expensive than Fry's. I think in most locations, Albertsons/Safeway brings in slightly upscale married women.

In Dallas, more of the Tom Thumb locations are closer to where married women would go. A few Tom Thumbs are in singles dense neighborhoods.

Sprouts, I had a job that took me through there every week, and I cosign your assessment of the quality of women you'll see there. I had no idea.
Sprouts can bring in some cuties. Things vary from location to location. If the Sprouts is in single dense neighborhood, then it might be worth a stop for approaches.

I gotta see what's up with Whole Foods.
When I have been to Whole Foods, I've done fewer approaches than I would anticipate. I also don't find the women at Whole Foods to be as sociable as Kroger/Albertsons brand stores.

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For the absolute youngest women, I don't think Whole Foods is strongest because it takes some higher income to shop there. Women don't tend to reach that income threshold until around 30. There might be some younger females from wealthier females in there.

The store brand itself matters less than the neighborhood it is in for approaching, especially approaching the youngest women.
 

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the original walmart pua

I don't know if that's fake or that's how things are in the US, but I watched the first minute and let me tell you, in Europe you try opening a woman like that she'd just give you a look as if you're an alien and probably call the store security on you. If you're really unlucky, she might get her boyfriend or relatives to kick your ass.
 

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I don't know if that's fake or that's how things are in the US, but I watched the first minute and let me tell you, in Europe you try opening a woman like that she'd just give you a look as if you're an alien and probably call the store security on you. If you're really unlucky, she might get her boyfriend or relatives to kick your ass.
Oh, believe me, I 100% agree.

I made comments about the difference when it comes to cold approach and game a million times (and not just on this forum) over the years, but I felt like I was howling into the moon with these Americans telling me 'girls are the same everywhere, bro' so I just let them think what they want lol

That vid was for the benefit of the US walmart cold approachers! (it is legit btw. I know quite a bit about that dude)

I fully agree that a similar approach in most parts of the UK would have them look at you like you were on fire lol.

Even in BARS and stuff at night there's a huge difference here in how receptive and social girls are to strangers compared to other countries (and i've visited my fair share)

In the US (at least the states I visited) I could walk up too a girl and literally lntroduce myself 'Hey, I'm mike!' and she's not only smile but she'd introduce herself back and then ask me how I am or something.
Walking up too a hot young girl where i live in the UK and just being like 'Hi, i'm mike' and she'd either think you were on a bet, mentally deranged, trying to sell her something, or something else lol. Getting her to talk back and have a convo would be exceptionally rare unless she was an especially, unusually friendly, social girl who also happened to think you were cute
 
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Fry's Food & Drug in Arizona is a Kroger brand store. Doing approaches at Fry's is the same as doing approaches in Kroger in US states where the Kroger brand exists.
Albertsons and Safeway merged in 2015. Safeway is a sub-brand of Albertsons.

Albertsons and Safeway branded stores have similar environments.

In Metro Dallas, Tom Thumb was a Safeway owned brand when the 2015 merger happened. The Tom Thumb brand is the major Albertsons brand around the Dallas-Fort Worth area, though there are a couple of Albertsons locations scattered.
Makes sense.

When I first began working at Albertsons, the talk of the town was a merge of Fry's and Albertsons as well.

It never materialized, though.

Also when I worked there, some email addresses was that of Safeway.

Safeway and Fry's and similar, but Fry's, something about them, I just simply LOVE.

Fry's is my favorite store to shop at for groceries...by far.

For you, think about the differences between Albertsons/Safeway and Fry's.

I can imagine that Albertsons/Safeway stores don't tend to bring in bigger titted women.
You are CORRECT!!

That was the "quality" part that I said was lacking at Safeway and Albertsons.

Although, don't get me wrong, on a good day, I saw some stuff.

Safeway/Albertsons, both brought much older patrons, with not many Black women of the fold.

It's slightly more expensive than Fry's.
Their prices were/are insulting.

To put it in perspective, select items that are 50% off at Albertsons, the new discount price would sometimes still be more than the regular price at Walmart, for the same item.

Shiit was crazy.

I think in most locations, Albertsons/Safeway brings in slightly upscale married women.
Yup, you know your stuff.

You can tell by the way they look, dress, walk, and talk.

Definitely more upscale.

In Dallas, more of the Tom Thumb locations are closer to where married women would go. A few Tom Thumbs are in singles dense neighborhoods.
The store director at the Albertsons where I worked, was surprised when I told her I had never stepped foot into an Albertsons before I worked there.

The reason?

Because I lived in west Phoenix most of the 13 years I've been in the state, and there were hardly any Albertsons or Safeways in the west valley.

The main grocery stores in Phoenix are Walmarts, Fry's, Food City, and Ranch Market.

Food City and Ranch Market caters more to the Mexican community (Food City prices are competitive, though).

Based on my heavy cold approaching endeavors and the women that I like, and good food prices, I had no reason to go to any other grocery stores besides Fry's and Walmarts.

I had/have all I need with just those two.

I live in Chandler now, more upscale environment.

Here, there are more Albertsons/Safeways...but the prices of the food and the quality of the women just don't cut it for me.

With all that being said, I need to add Costco, Sam's Club, and Winco to the mix.
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Sprouts can bring in some cuties. Things vary from location to location. If the Sprouts is in single dense neighborhood, then it might be worth a stop for approaches.
At my last gig, I used to deliver product to "Press Coffee", a coffee shop inside of Sprouts.

The times that stepped into the store, never a dull moment.

It made me appreciate nice, fit bodies more.

But still, although nice to look at, not necessarily nice enough to cold approach.

When I have been to Whole Foods, I've done fewer approaches than I would anticipate. I also don't find the women at Whole Foods to be as sociable as Kroger/Albertsons brand stores.
I see.

Man, in all my travel endeavors throughout the valley, I've only come across one Whole Foods store.

They are probably the least I've seen.

For the absolute youngest women, I don't think Whole Foods is strongest because it takes some higher income to shop there. Women don't tend to reach that income threshold until around 30. There might be some younger females from wealthier females in there.

The store brand itself matters less than the neighborhood it is in for approaching, especially approaching the youngest women.
Younger women...Walmart :devil:
 

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Man, in all my travel endeavors throughout the valley, I've only come across one Whole Foods store.

They are probably the least I've seen.
I went to Whole Foods' website and saw they have 5 Phoenix area locations and 0 in the West Valley. There's one in North Phoenix, one in North Scottsdale, one near Camelback & SR 51 in a more Central Phoenix neighborhood, one in Tempe (not far from Arizona State), and one in Chandler.

If you think about where those locations are, you can think about what sort of shopper would go to Whole Foods.

It made me appreciate nice, fit bodies more.

But still, although nice to look at, not necessarily nice enough to cold approach.
That's my favorite type of woman. I look for that in whatever grocery store I go to.

Safeway/Albertsons, both brought much older patrons, with not many Black women of the fold.

Here, there are more Albertsons/Safeways...but the prices of the food and the quality of the women just don't cut it for me.
When I think about the Albertsons/Safeway/Tom Thumb locations that I have been to over the years, I have not seen too many Black women in those stores.

Those brands aren't bad places to do approaches if its store is located in a singles dense neighborhood. For instance, there has been a Safeway location near Arizona State University in Tempe for decades. Among Arizona State students who live off campus, it's known as Sexy Safeway.
 
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