Im getting checked out...alot...

[naes420]

Basicly the week day i went shopping for new clothes and got a haircut. ive always been a pretty good looking guy, i always had a bad wardrobe choice and my haircut wasnt all that great.

i spent 100s on clothes (nice looking shirts and jeans, my useual style is like sweaters and ****) and got a really nice haircut...

school next day..

well, multiple girls who stopped talking to me all a sudden said hi...girls who never gave me the time of day...well, did. it feels like everywhere i walk i notice at least one or two girls checking me out. im getting my ass slapped by hot girls...girls telling me things liek wow, you look really hot. one girl (used to be a good friend) even basicly began riding my buss again conviently when this all happened, basicly trying to get the seat across from me to again hit on me and check me out.

all of this is something i would have never expected..i have never in my life had so much female attention. It almost feels like a dream.

but its becoming absoulutly overwhelming to me, i am very shy around people i dont know well, but male or female...after a few converations i ease up.

i dont know what to do, i dont know how to take all this in. i feel like i am litteraly being watched everywhere i go now just because i look so much better then i used to be. im actualy getting paranoid about it. its somthing i want..but at the same time its just overwhelming...i just dont know what im supposed to do becuase i feel like i have to like live up to being someone im not....i just cant walk up to a girl checking me out and start a conversation, i dont know where to go after a girl calls me hot, i dont know what to do when im getting my ass slapped.

advice?

 

[PrinceBeavis]

You know....I can't imagine a single dude here who's most awesome dream wouldn't be to get the attention you're getting. That is just.......AWESOME.

Dude.....Can't you just relax? Can't you just enjoy it? We'd all LOVE to be in your shoes. Just chill.

...besides....things will probably calm down too soon anyways.

 

[sam3083]

Love it, enjoy it, and take advantage of it.

Its cool how I never encounter *****y girls these days (I used to be about a 2 on the looks scale). I finally realised its because the *****y ones put up that nice front to me, just smiling, and laughing at terrible jokes, or just giggling in general.

I say take them for all there worth. Its no different to hot women manipulating chumps. And plus, i talked a chick into giving me a free DVD today, lol

 

[JesterX]

what haircut did you get?

 

[Snow Plowman]

This is state issues...

You think it was the new cloth and haircut that is giving you this boost of confidence, but actually its because you now feel entitled to take on a higher value than you used too because "I'm pimp I got better cloth and a better hairstyle"

It's all cool and fun now, but it will still cause state fluctuations, because say if you don't have those cloth on, you won't be as confident because now its like "Damn I don't have my pimp cloth"

The same thing your experiencing now is what I first experienced when I changed my style. I still get approached alot though, but now its because of "Who I am" I no longer have any state fluctuations do to changing my whole identity.

I don't want to fuk you over, but realize you have a larger problem and changing your cloth helped but it won't solve the overall problem.

 

[LostAndConfused]

Yeah snow plowman is absolutely right. You need to have that confidence even if your wearing clothes you bought at the dollar store.

If you get so much attention why are you even here? Seems like even an AFC in your shoes could score with at least a couple of the girls.

 

[Bonafide]

Enjoy it while it lasts lol. Take advantage of it too.

 

[nismo-4]

Yeah snow plowman is absolutely right. You need to have that confidence even if your wearing clothes you bought at the dollar store.

If you get so much attention why are you even here? Seems like even an AFC in your shoes could score with at least a couple of the girls.

What kind of clothes did you buy and what haircut did you get?

Enjoy this moment while it lasts!

 

[ChapStick]

Basicly the week day i went shopping for new clothes and got a haircut. ive always been a pretty good looking guy, i always had a bad wardrobe choice and my haircut wasnt all that great.

i spent 100s on clothes (nice looking shirts and jeans, my useual style is like sweaters and ****) and got a really nice haircut...

school next day..

well, multiple girls who stopped talking to me all a sudden said hi...girls who never gave me the time of day...well, did. it feels like everywhere i walk i notice at least one or two girls checking me out. im getting my ass slapped by hot girls...girls telling me things liek wow, you look really hot. one girl (used to be a good friend) even basicly began riding my buss again conviently when this all happened, basicly trying to get the seat across from me to again hit on me and check me out.

all of this is something i would have never expected..i have never in my life had so much female attention. It almost feels like a dream.

but its becoming absoulutly overwhelming to me, i am very shy around people i dont know well, but male or female...after a few converations i ease up.

i dont know what to do, i dont know how to take all this in. i feel like i am litteraly being watched everywhere i go now just because i look so much better then i used to be. im actualy getting paranoid about it. its somthing i want..but at the same time its just overwhelming...i just dont know what im supposed to do becuase i feel like i have to like live up to being someone im not....i just cant walk up to a girl checking me out and start a conversation, i dont know where to go after a girl calls me hot, i dont know what to do when im getting my ass slapped.

advice?

You said that you had a bad wardrobe choice before, and a bad haircut choice before. You suddenly woke up with better taste? lol

That's awesome man! Female attention rocks! In your position you're gonna have chicks asking for you number, and you're gonna have some ugly chicks wanting to "be your friend." Jesus, do you know how much it sucks to sit in a new college classroom and some fatty sits next to you trying to start a conversation just because you held the door open for her as you walked into the classroom.

When girls tell me I'm hot (most of the time girls tell me I'm, "Very pretty" or that I'm a "beautiful guy") I just tell them "Nawwwww..." and they start trying to convince me that I'm good looking, and I just change the conversation.

Girls slap your ass... Hmm.. I don't have girls slapping my ass so I wouldn't know...

Have fun with all the attention. It'll just continue to fuel that confidence.

 

[zack77766]

love your ability. i get attention but not like this......

 

[zack77766]

This is state issues...

You think it was the new cloth and haircut that is giving you this boost of confidence, but actually its because you now feel entitled to take on a higher value than you used too because "I'm pimp I got better cloth and a better hairstyle"

It's all cool and fun now, but it will still cause state fluctuations, because say if you don't have those cloth on, you won't be as confident because now its like "Damn I don't have my pimp cloth"

The same thing your experiencing now is what I first experienced when I changed my style. I still get approached alot though, but now its because of "Who I am" I no longer have any state fluctuations do to changing my whole identity.

I don't want to fuk you over, but realize you have a larger problem and changing your cloth helped but it won't solve the overall problem.

he could be right. lets say if your clothes are in the wash... Work on yo game son. dont rely too much on your clothes. Im just curious but what did you buy from? Where did you get your haircut?

 

[GaryUranga]

get used to it man, I went thru this, just get used to it.. change is always hard

 

[LostAndConfused]

get used to it man, I went thru this, just get used to it.. change is always hard

What is there to get through? Is there really any problems at all except for possibly the fact that he's dependent on his new look, which snowplow man addressed?

 

[foxtrot191]

whenever you wear new clothes and sport a new hair cut people are going to notice. you should take advantage of the situation and talk to some girls if you like them

 

[sandman6991]

I need a new hair-cut...

 

[GaryUranga]

What is there to get through? Is there really any problems at all except for possibly the fact that he's dependent on his new look, which snowplow man addressed?

theres no "problem" however its a change on how things will work for him, if I were butt ugly and suddenly became the hottest man on earth (which I am anyways) I wouldnt know wtf to do and it would be hard to get used to thta attention it feels liek its too much, but in the end it all works out so.. get used to it..

 

[naes420]

i was never ugly AND MAN i am a damn pimp now, i swear to god, i turn a corner, ive got eyes on me, i give the ****tiest speeches known to man, OMG THAT WAS BRILLIANT, i can say anything and im still gorgeous to these women

life IS AWESOME

 

[naes420]

oh and, sorry guys, take it from someone who knows.

looks are 3/4th of what a girl looks for, sorry, its just the sad truth, they are no better then use men when it comes to looks in reality, they just want a hot guy, if ur ugly u dont have a high chance if any chance at all of landing a decently hot girl....its sad, but truth. unless u are REALLY REALLY funny and have an awesome personality there are exceptions. but if you are that lonley ugly kid sitting alone at the lunch table ur chances are slim to none especaly if ur in a small school and people know who you are. best wait until u get out of Highschool to make the change, cause ur rep is EVERYTHING in highschool. and ur looks are ur chances of getting a girl.

ur a 1, u have a 1% chance of getting a hot girl
2, 2%
3, 3%
4, 4%
5, 5%
6, 10%
7, 50%
8, 70%
9, 90%
10, 95%

thats the way i see it, ive got more girl friends the i do guy friends now so im pretty sure they see it that way too. beutiful is better. but if uve got an AWESOME personality, you can overide this, ive seen it before, i, personaly, am just an interesting person, i dont have an awesome personality, im just like an 8.5ish on the chart

 

[GaryUranga]

I think looks play a big role on how easy it is to just get a girl open to you and gives you a big initial advantage however if youre not confident at all it wont go far, if your conversational skills arent good you wont be getting too far, if youre lettign other guys pick on you etc etc, theres plenty ways that looks wont even matter, myself Im pretty goodlookign apaprently, most chicks dig me initially, actually in the last year or so Ive only met a few who werent just into me from the start, great its a huge advantage but in the end the guy that can advance better with her will get her, if youre a 10 but you have no idea how to progress you wont get anywhere, however beign 10 maes things waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay easier, not sayign Im a 10 Im a ONE MILLION

 

[playa99]

lol they slap your ass slap theirs, its a win-win situation, i think that looks are important, but when you get better looking, all other areas of your game go up, creating a ripple effect, good work though man keep it up