I'm effin up

[Fatal Jay]

I been talking to this single mom for a few months now, things was kicking off, we hung out a lot, made out, but never bang. I never much tripped out about the not banging factor because I had other plates I was banging on the regular, and plus this chick is pretty hot. Thing is three months back we had a fight, based off her not texting me back, I told her she would make a ****ty girlfriend, and she told me to **** off. Fast forward three months she text me back.

Her birthday was this week, I told her I would take her out on Saturday for dinner. The thing is during this same week, I ask her to be exclusive with me (I know I'm effin up bad) she said she would think about it, I asked her again two days after that and she said" she is still thinking, and why the rush?"

The thing is, I know I have messed up on so many levels, and I'm going to next this girl, the thing I'm asking my fellow brothers is, should I still take her out Saturday, or just fade away?

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

Just disappear.

 

[BeDJ]

How desperate are you for intimacy that you asked a single mom to be your girlfriend before sex?

 

[JoeMarron]

You've made some good posts in the past bro you know better than this. Why the hell would you ask a single mom who you've never banged to be exclusive with you when you have other plates on the side? Were you planning on dropping your other plates for her? In the immortal words of Usher u got it bad. Get out now.

 

[Fatal Jay]

How desperate are you for intimacy that you asked a single mom to be your girlfriend before sex?

wouldn't have did if she wasn't hb10, but I am pretty much disgusted with myself, lesson is learned by me guys,lol.

 

[visions]

you made a mistake, learned from it , and are growing....

what's your objective? 1)strictly girlfriend or is a 2) fwb ok?

she may be unworthy for 1) as she already has a kid.
option 2) sounds acceptable to me,
but only you know what you want.

as far as taking her out, it depends what you want and how strongly you feel. i doubt i would. how about this: does she take you out?

i get the impression even though she's an alleged HB10 she hasn't been humbled by single-momhood and still expects men to cater to her.

 

[visions]

In the immortal words of Usher u got it bad.

lol.

 

[MegamanXL]

Visions: Nail on the head

 

[zinc4]

Yes you messed up several times there and never be eager for s relationship...that is her job...however..why next her? Bang her and then let her crawl to you and then you will have the power...a lot of you guys next out of massive insecurity...bang her and then weigh your options..not her fault that you screwed up so far....get what you originally set out for..

 

[Zarky]

1) :kick:

2) There are no HB10s

 

[MegamanXL]

Only if they are worth the hassle zinc4,......it could come with a whole lot more...... I've been there. I think the key point is not get emotionally attached and just treat her like hoe. That's what I would do.

 

[Big Nuts]

Single moms are the bottom of the totem pole....this site promotes that 'you are your mission", not women...to pine for a single mom demolishes this philosophy.

A single mom should be paying you for even paying attention to her, and offering you copious p00n with ZERO effort....single moms are low hanging fruit.

 

[Purefilth]

WOW Fatal... NO. BAD BOY.

JK but seriously. Oneitis ftw here right?
All you need to hear has been said already.
Disappear.

 

[zinc4]

Only if they are worth the hassle zinc4,......it could come with a whole lot more...... I've been there. I think the key point is not get emotionally attached and just treat her like hoe. That's what I would do.

Of course...you should never be emotionally attached...that is a given..i don't know why so many guys have such a hard time with this part...bang em and leave them..or have them in the palm of your hand as plates...if you are not attached then none of her feedback or BS will phase or even matter to you...

Fatal...hit it a few times and then put on your brakes......her IL will jump much higher than your's at that point if you are any good in bed....also man up and stop becoming attached..

Single moms are the bottom of the totem pole....this site promotes that 'you are your mission", not women...to pine for a single mom demolishes this philosophy.

A single mom should be paying you for even paying attention to her, and offering you copious p00n with ZERO effort....single moms are low hanging fruit.

Blah blah blah...you sound like some kind of PUA robot or something...plenty of milfs are hot as h$ll and we are talking about banging her...

If OP can keep his emotions and IL in check then why not bang her a few times and leave...all he has to do is stay calm and go out with her...

 

[BeDJ]

Zinc,

Just because you are horny without quality options, you shouldn't encourage people to go after single moms. I think you are a good person, but something about you just screams of desperation. No offense, but if you are who 'you say you are,' you can do much better than a single mom. Stop trying to be exclusive with these women and you can see your true potential.

 

[zinc4]

Zinc,

Just because you are horny without quality options, you shouldn't encourage people to go after single moms. I think you are a good person, but something about you just screams of desperation. No offense, but if you are who 'you say you are,' you can do much better than a single mom. Stop trying to be exclusive with these women and you can see your true potential.

You either have some serious reading comprehension issues and or you just can't read people well at all....

I have a great GF and a stable of quality plates....if anything.....i have too many options...personally i have only hit and quit single mothers and would never date them even casually for obvious reasons...

and i am not horny i am putting myself in his shoes and telling him how to turn someone who he is obviously infatuated with into his own sex slave that he can discard any time showing him how much BS his infatuation was in the first place...it's just a fake feeling of wanting someone of something stemming from insecurity..if he merely turns away and moves on he will always still secretly desire her...how is that conquering anything??? the advice that you offer is good don't mess with single mothers in the first place and i can agree....however, he is already thick in it...

only way to beat that feeling completely is to turn her into a plate while meeting numerous other plates and have her begging him for a relationship and then discard her and beat his feelings of attachment for her...

And no one is talking about exclusive...hitting and quitting or turning her into a plate...Op was talking exclusive...that is his thing to deal with mentally and emotionally....quite frankly he should have conquered this attachment issue a long time ago...there is no excuse for men to get emotionally attached to a woman...

edit: I just read your thread about dating triumphs and tragedies......you don't have the right to ever talk sh&t to me again...you are just a fledgling.

 

[Vidrio]

1) :kick:

2) There are no HB10s

Agree. 10s don't exist, not to me at least. I've never seen a perfect looking girl in my life. And zinc, you said he should bang her a few times if he can keep his emotions and IL in check. Obviously he can't do that or this thread wouldn't even exist. OP needs to drop this chick.

 

[Big Nuts]

zinc...nothing wrong with hitting attractive single moms, I've hit many...pining over them and "asking" them to be exclusive is laughable and reeks beta.