nice thread. i'm the same really. i'm kind of in the whatever give up section.
i just texted this girl who i called last week and everything was great, we had plenty of laughs and a good vibe going... i figured she saved my number. i texted her before and she's like "ah who is this?" i just laughed out loud because it's so fuking dumb how girls act. i don't care though, shes nothing to me. also a different girl i was seeing, we have the best time together when we are hanging out.. soon as we part ways she starts playing games. calls me few days later going nuts saying why i havent been talking to her etc. so when i finally do contact her and talk, she hardly talks and is boring.. i ask to hang out again and she gives me stupid one word answers "maybe" so i just hang up and leave it alone until she contacts me again .. i only give girls a few chances. they keep playin games with me then fuk off i say. i'm really not into the games they play and i have no patience with it like most guys do.
i think some things on here are true. live the life you want, enjoy your life without women, they will come to you when you're enjoying life on your own. working, making money, buy a house, meet friends and go out a little. when you're happy you don't really even need a woman. when i was living alone i was very lonely and i never went out, i still don't go out that much but now that im meeting more people and i'm happy again, i don't really NEED women to be happy. i've always been much happier single and that's been half my life. i noticed that everytime i meet a girl and fall for her, then we break up it ruins me badly. puts me to the ground and it takes a while for me to get back up again and be happy.
i'm only just starting to get back up again and be happy from my last girl who dumped me. i took it hard and i kind of relied on that girl to be happy which is very bad. i was unhappy but when i was with her i was the happiest guy alive. not good!
be happy on your own and live your own life before thinking about women. they ARE indeed fuked up and are NOT number one in my list anymore!