DJ_Traveler
Don Juan
Hi guys,
I've started dating a girl for about a month now.
We have hung out five times total.
On the fourth date she came over and we slept together.
However, on the 5th date she really confused me. She seemed a bit distant and in thoughts. She said that maybe we have moved too fast with her referring to sleeping with me and that we should slow down so that we get to know each other better. In addition, she mentioned that is still having some difficulties getting completely over her marriage failing a year ago(she has been separated for a year).
What do you guys think it means?
A side of me thinks that taking our time can be a good thing as I think its good to know the other person well before rushing in any relationship. The other side of me is concerned about being manipulated or being played?(I've been burned in the past).
Thanks.
I've started dating a girl for about a month now.
We have hung out five times total.
On the fourth date she came over and we slept together.
However, on the 5th date she really confused me. She seemed a bit distant and in thoughts. She said that maybe we have moved too fast with her referring to sleeping with me and that we should slow down so that we get to know each other better. In addition, she mentioned that is still having some difficulties getting completely over her marriage failing a year ago(she has been separated for a year).
What do you guys think it means?
A side of me thinks that taking our time can be a good thing as I think its good to know the other person well before rushing in any relationship. The other side of me is concerned about being manipulated or being played?(I've been burned in the past).
Thanks.