I'm called ****y all the time

[Jokerlsk]

I've been thinking lately, and have wanted to know if I'm really too ****y. I was talking to people, and they say that I'm always so ****y, or I'm arrogant. Honestly though, I don't think it's a bad thing. I don't have to try to be ****y, I think it's just implemented into my personality from being with my dad and uncle too much. People say I act just like them, and it's not a bad thing. The one draw back is that if i'm not consistent, I get ragged on. I'm not necessarily the most popular guy at my school, but I am well known, and I'm friends with basically all the guy in my class, and I'm trying to get to know the girls better to try to keep the ratio balanced. I'm considered one of the smarter kids, and I'm in a class that I shouldn't be in because i got recommended for the college level course, so I'm smarter than everyone in the class. I've just noticed that when I do mess up people rag on me. I just think it's funny. I don't take offense to it. The teacher calls me, "Genius." To try to patronize me I guess, but I mess around with him because we're just having fun. However, something was said one day about marriage and kids, and one of my buddies said he thinks i'll be a good dad because of the way i handle my 5 year old brother, and how i let him tag along and stuff when we're hanging out and include him. And this girl I'm interested said, "yeah right, jokerlsk is gonna have a hard time finding a girl who will feed his ego all the time." And I said, "Don't worry, I'm going to be promiscuous instead. My old girl is getting kind of rusty, are you interested?" I thought it was funny. It's even funnier because she has a boyfriend and I don't even care. This post is interesting because people call me ****y all the time, but it's not a bad thing. It's just a part of my personality.

 

[CaptainJ]

If a girl calls you arrogant or ****y, it means they like that aspect about your personality.

 

[Jokerlsk]

Well that's good. I'm pretty sure I can think up something funny to say when a girl calls me ****y or arrogant

 

[macallik]

hmmm. I kinda got a sense of you bragging every now and then in this post unconsciously about how you are the smartest person in the class and how your friend thinks you'll be a good dad (what does that have to do with anything). The fact that multiple people call you out on your ****iness is a little concerning although not a tell-tale sign of an err on your part.

The responses you gave were ****y and decent but the way people are calling you out before you can give a ****y responses makes it sound like perhaps your problem is being to egotistical? I don't know you other than through this text you just typed so take that stab in the dark fwiw.

 

[tarotale]

hahaha you did that one good siiir. i like what u told back to that girl. i personally think CF is very very important thing n i try to act upon it all the time. as we all know, CF is still million times better than being a push over or boring afc that don't know how to sexually brag on women. if i were you, i would have said to her "well, ya but unfortunately for you, i don think you have the balls to even be close to feeding a portion of my ego, so if you try hard on that, i might start seeing you like a woman" i know this is harsh, but i don take **** from no one n this is me. Famous old saying "be yourself"

 

[Jokerlsk]

Alright well i have another conversation via text.

Hey what should I study for, for that anatomy test. Wasn't at school when we took it

her
Um you need to be able to label the pictures. There are short essays but they are easy.

me
alright. Thanks

her
The rest is just like stuff about the parts of the reproductive system

me
Well, I mean, this is the test over the reproductive system.. lol

her
I know haha. But like know what the parts of the male and female do. And know the journey of sperm


me
Journey of the sperm? For real?


her
Yeah haha!



me
Well, that'll be interesting. I think i filled out a chart on it


her
Yeah I can name it right now lol



me
That's something to be proud of lol

her
Hahaha yeah I know.



Me
Well i gotta go work on a project, so I'll ttyl.


her
K peace good luck on the test


me
Thanks. It'll be easy


her
Yeah bc you're so smart


Me
Yeah, I know.

It wasn't really anything special, and I'm not really interested in this girl, but I just felt like posting it up. It wasn't really funny. I actually wasn't even thinking about gaming this girl. I was just being natural

 

[Desert Fox]

Alright well i have another conversation via text.

Hey what should I study for, for that anatomy test. Wasn't at school when we took it

her
Um you need to be able to label the pictures. There are short essays but they are easy.

me
alright. Thanks

her
The rest is just like stuff about the parts of the reproductive system

me
Well, I mean, this is the test over the reproductive system.. lol

her
I know haha. But like know what the parts of the male and female do. And know the journey of sperm


me
Journey of the sperm? For real?


her
Yeah haha!



me
Well, that'll be interesting. I think i filled out a chart on it


her
Yeah I can name it right now lol



me
That's something to be proud of lol

her
Hahaha yeah I know.



Me
Well i gotta go work on a project, so I'll ttyl.


her
K peace good luck on the test


me
Thanks. It'll be easy


her
Yeah bc you're so smart


Me
Yeah, I know.

It wasn't really anything special, and I'm not really interested in this girl, but I just felt like posting it up. It wasn't really funny. I actually wasn't even thinking about gaming this girl. I was just being natural

sorry if that was natural then you're naturally lame. could've done some good with the whole sex topic u had there. guess text wasn't the place to do it though.

 

[Jokerlsk]

Desert Fox, as I said, I wasn't trying to flirt with her, I was just asking her a simple question. The reasoning behind the post was to show how I normally act, so you guys could give me your opinions on how ****y I am and if I should tone it down or not. I'm doing this because people have told me I am and I just want to be able to gauge it. I've got a lot of friends and I don't drink, San Jose

 

[King Turi]

Well, this couple used to call me ****y all the time, and they'd be saying it like it was an insult, I'd just tell 'em it ain't ****y if you know that it's true.

Then I wound up bangin' the girlfriend and she told me she's wanted to ride me for ages, so being ****y definitely isn't a bad thing.

If a chick tells you you're ****y, it means they wanna bounce on you all night long bro.

 

[Jokerlsk]

Well Idk if it means they "wanna bounce on me all night long," but I think they say it because it's the only thing remotely close to an insult they have. I use to be insecure about my weight because i was chubby in middleschool, but I started working out and lost all of the excess weight 2 years ago. I've been trying to think of a funny line to say back to them when they say I'm ****y though. Any suggestions? I usually just say, "Thanks for the compliment."

 

[Desert Fox]

Well Idk if it means they "wanna bounce on me all night long," but I think they say it because it's the only thing remotely close to an insult they have. I use to be insecure about my weight because i was chubby in middleschool, but I started working out and lost all of the excess weight 2 years ago. I've been trying to think of a funny line to say back to them when they say I'm ****y though. Any suggestions? I usually just say, "Thanks for the compliment."

From that short text convo I got the feeling that you were ****y, in an annoying way. I guess your friends just don't have the balls to tell you. I know a few people that give me the same vibe as your post did and I really can't stand them, but where I work you can't really tell them off so I just smile and say "uh huh" while ignoring them. It's for the best.

BTW it reminded me of myself in high school. I was C&F all the time with this girl I liked. After I stopped liking her because I got with someone else, I asked her casually to give me an honest opinion about myself and my ****iness + funny.

She plainly told me there was no funny, well maybe a little, but it's not cool if I'm like that lal the time and she got tired with it after a while. She also said it looked like I was trying really hard but at the same time she couldn't really read if I wanted her because I never made a move. However, the whole time I thought I was playing her good and getting a good vibe because she laughed a lot. I know she's telling me the truth here because I was good friends with her during that time in the past. Take from that what you will I guess.

 

[Jokerlsk]

It's just my personality. I really don't know though. I act just like my dad and uncle and they're really likeable and have a lot of friends. I have a lot of friends myself, and I don't try to be that way. I really think it's because they're jealous of me because of my confidence, intelligence, and how I'm usually happy. Keep in mind this is a lower level class, so it isn't farfetched to think that some kids might be jealous. I am going to try to be nicer to some people though, and I do need to make some apologies for some of the things I've said to certain people.

 

[mothballs]

Yeah... there is a point at which you can be too C&F and I think you've reached it with all the people telling you you're ****y. You have to be serious some of the time too. Most girls won't put up with a guy that goes too overboard with wise cracks all the time... There is a fine line between acting naturally C&F and looking like you're just trying to hard. I think you should seriously consider taking harder courses, because this smarter than everyone attitude is hurting more than it's helping. You sound like a smart guy, but it's good to realize that you really aren't the smartest on the planet... it's good to keep the ego in check. In academics, being top of the class in an entry level HS class (I'm assuming you're in HS) is like winning a gold medal at the special olympics... Always remember that accomplishments are relative to the population subset.

 

[Desert Fox]

It's just my personality. I really don't know though. I act just like my dad and uncle and they're really likeable and have a lot of friends. I have a lot of friends myself, and I don't try to be that way. I really think it's because they're jealous of me because of my confidence, intelligence, and how I'm usually happy. Keep in mind this is a lower level class, so it isn't farfetched to think that some kids might be jealous. I am going to try to be nicer to some people though, and I do need to make some apologies for some of the things I've said to certain people.

Dude it's cool. People always hate those at the top like you and me.

We got nothing to apologize for. Just spit your game how u want it, if it pisses off the little insecure people fvck them you don't need them in your life man. Just keep a check on yourself when you're around teachers and profs and whatnot. It's good that you got that prof calling you genius. That's a compliment. Might make all your classmates hate you (I've been in your position before) but **** them.

 

[S.Y.L]

A girl called me ****y once, I replied: good.

Shes like "it turns me off", then i told her to fvck off, and never talked to her again.