im black and iv had people say **** like that too me,but they always say i act different not white, these people are usually the ghetto ones. i dnt be fukking with ghetto chicks to tell you the truth,i did once and found they were too much for me to handle thats why i go with normal girls,i was raised in a west african house hold and my views were different from the typical african american or blk birtish folks,i lived in both the u.s and th uk.
the thing is once you get to your mid-twenties youll say fukk it and be your self naturally. because being blk isnt an attitude, you are who you are. why should i wear clothes 4 sizes to big,when i cant find employemnt? and wonder why i dont get a job? there is racsim yes.
but we need to help ourselfs. i hate racists,infact i aint that comfortable around white folks.because i get paranoid and they can be stunned if they expect a certain attitude from you but dont get it, and the racists thing slips out every now and again from white folks,by making comments like,, act blk man,,or can you rap,,or playbasketball. a good role model for me is will smith..he know's he's blk and goes with his own,,but the same time knows how to play the game on the hwite audiences. so he comes of as a none threatning kinda dude.
as for girls you dont need to rush on them,,
youll grow and youll know better you are only 16. and i would say be carefull with the kinda white girls you date cuss, thier parents may not like you, infact they will not like you, theyll just put -up a front. so id say stick with like-minded blk girls.
i had bling and baggy pants and the whole nine when i was in my teens to early 20's to please the blk crowd,not white folks. i gave -up when i saw how shallow these bling and hihop beaches were becoming,cuss i just dnt give a fukk anymore about that shiit, i love my hiphop to death but i dress normall,t-shirts and jeans like every other human being. white dudes be looking at me like wtf?? no bling ..no airforce ones?? he wearing chucks??
i hate being sterotyped,,im me and the best way to overcome this is not to give a fukk wat they think..either they are blk no white dont play into thier perceptions of what a young blk man should be.
seems like we helped in playing the part of them steroetyping us. like im a loser for not having spinner's or popping crytal in the club? even some white women are taking this view that you aint proper if you aint balli'n. fukk outta here.
i speak propper with a lil slang here and there to suit the level of that persons education,sometimes white girls be comming at me with wats up dawg..ill be like beach speak english..i understand normall english.
just be normall and dont act like some geek stand tall and dont give your attention to everylittle thing some idiot say or thinks the more you disgard these things the happier you'll be. besides my dad had a white wife once so i know how to talk to both parties.
ps. in a hurry thats why my writings fuked up.
