brosnake
Don Juan
I'm sure there are many others on this board that have similar experiences to mine. Women are constantly hitting on me.
Here is a familiar scenario:
At the mall on a Tuesday afternoon buying some jeans at American Eagle.
Her: Do you need any help with that sir? (major EC, she is *not* breaking her vision)
Hero: Nah.
Her: Oh WOW! I love your jeans, you look really cute! *or* I love your glasses! (sometimes grabbing at them)
Hero: Thanks.
Her: (something flirty with suggestive EC)
Hero: That's cool. (unemotional)
Note: After two rapport breakers the chicks will usually leave or if they are really desperate ask another rapport gaining type question/statement.
So why was I a total prick to this chick? Because she was an UG and I just really wanted to purchase my stuff and leave. I get blatant IOIs from UG5-6.5 A LOT. Well they are not exactly IOIs, more like "I want to make it very clear you have the green light to sex me without doing anything else besides looking good" type looks/gestures/words. A one hour stroll through a local mall will elicit this response to at least one clerk or counter girl.
And please don't misunderstand me here, this thread is not to brag about how much of the man I am. In fact, far from it. I only know I'm being hit on now is because up until recently I *never* got any attention from the ladies. I was 40 lbs overweight, dark, moody, drug addled, and a total AFC to boot. I spent my entire life looking down at the ground for sheer fear of making eye contact to a stranger. After a year of a religious diet and 4-days a week at the gym, I have transformed into a male apparently more pleasing to the female eye than my previous form. I have also attempted to correct my body language as well as mental outlook all in an order to become the man I know I can be.
Getting back to the original purpose of this post, I get these major IOIs but I almost always completely ignore it when it comes from chicks that I would not approach on my own. A part of me thinks I'm good for her and I shouldn't lower myself just to get pu55y, but a part of me thinks that the sexual experience alone would be worth it (Although on one occasion I was pretty much dragged up to an empty room of a party house by a UG6. We had foreplay for 20 minutes and I just couldn't get it up, and it wasn't because I was drunk either). I was nearly assaulted at a party tonight by a cute face but fat, chick. I was a nice as I could be, but I turned her down.
I was wondering if anyone else has any experience in this issue. Maybe I should just get them to mack with me a little in front of the real targets instead of isolating them just to gain some social proof with the real hottie targets. But what if you are at a party and there are no real hotties there, just all HB5.5-6.5. Do you bang them for the hell of it? Or do you hold yourself to a higher standard?
-brosnake
http://yu.ac.kr/~bwlee/esc/baldwin.htm - "ABC. A, Always, B, Be, C, Closing. Always be closing. Always be closing."
Here is a familiar scenario:
At the mall on a Tuesday afternoon buying some jeans at American Eagle.
Her: Do you need any help with that sir? (major EC, she is *not* breaking her vision)
Hero: Nah.
Her: Oh WOW! I love your jeans, you look really cute! *or* I love your glasses! (sometimes grabbing at them)
Hero: Thanks.
Her: (something flirty with suggestive EC)
Hero: That's cool. (unemotional)
Note: After two rapport breakers the chicks will usually leave or if they are really desperate ask another rapport gaining type question/statement.
So why was I a total prick to this chick? Because she was an UG and I just really wanted to purchase my stuff and leave. I get blatant IOIs from UG5-6.5 A LOT. Well they are not exactly IOIs, more like "I want to make it very clear you have the green light to sex me without doing anything else besides looking good" type looks/gestures/words. A one hour stroll through a local mall will elicit this response to at least one clerk or counter girl.
And please don't misunderstand me here, this thread is not to brag about how much of the man I am. In fact, far from it. I only know I'm being hit on now is because up until recently I *never* got any attention from the ladies. I was 40 lbs overweight, dark, moody, drug addled, and a total AFC to boot. I spent my entire life looking down at the ground for sheer fear of making eye contact to a stranger. After a year of a religious diet and 4-days a week at the gym, I have transformed into a male apparently more pleasing to the female eye than my previous form. I have also attempted to correct my body language as well as mental outlook all in an order to become the man I know I can be.
Getting back to the original purpose of this post, I get these major IOIs but I almost always completely ignore it when it comes from chicks that I would not approach on my own. A part of me thinks I'm good for her and I shouldn't lower myself just to get pu55y, but a part of me thinks that the sexual experience alone would be worth it (Although on one occasion I was pretty much dragged up to an empty room of a party house by a UG6. We had foreplay for 20 minutes and I just couldn't get it up, and it wasn't because I was drunk either). I was nearly assaulted at a party tonight by a cute face but fat, chick. I was a nice as I could be, but I turned her down.
I was wondering if anyone else has any experience in this issue. Maybe I should just get them to mack with me a little in front of the real targets instead of isolating them just to gain some social proof with the real hottie targets. But what if you are at a party and there are no real hotties there, just all HB5.5-6.5. Do you bang them for the hell of it? Or do you hold yourself to a higher standard?
-brosnake
http://yu.ac.kr/~bwlee/esc/baldwin.htm - "ABC. A, Always, B, Be, C, Closing. Always be closing. Always be closing."
