Women are not a generic category. They are different ages, races, and levels of attractiveness. I just posted a thread about women who struggle to become pregnant after 35. That would make a lot of women over the age of 35 uncomfortable. By your criteria (discomfort), that's a "hateful" thread. It shouldn't be posted.
BTW, dave is probably referring to this ok-cupid study:
https://theblog.okcupid.com/race-and-attraction-2009-2014-107dcbb4f060
Black women are the lowest rated of all races of women.
Minority men are rated lower on average than white men.
Are you saying OK-Cupid is racist?
Tinder results show that black men and black women receive the lowest response rates:
https://www.inverse.com/article/36379-tinder-black-women-asian-men-racism
By the standard of dating desirability, blacks are at the bottom of the social hierarchy. However, while whites match more in dating desirability they are not at the top the income ladder. Jews and Asians make a lot more money than whites on average. It depends on the criteria you choose.