Dont jump into dates too fast, go on too many, or show any eagerness. Build some rapport; tease, joke around, keep things light, bring up sexual topics, etc first. You should be at least a little acquainted and build some connection before going on a date. Not just two strangers who made out once.
There should also be more contacting and interest on their end. They should want to go out with YOU after you reveal some of your interesting personality . You just keep it light, interesting, funny, sexual, and dont act overly interested. Dont reveal too much during this time, either. Youre just building up their anticipation and interest. You might even not go on any dates at all - hanging out, fooling around, having sex, getting acquainted , etc. You dont have to go on dates to be dating. It usually flows pretty naturally, and just happens through sexual interest, compatibility , etc. Not a big deal, so dont make it one. Certainly dont show any desperation, or give off relationship vibes. Your frame should be seeing if they meet your standards.
Not much different than making friends, in concept. It just happens through mutual interest, right? Dating is the same way. Its really not a big deal. Where people mess up is acting pushy, overly interested, and trying too hard to do things right and proper. Expectation breeds failure and disappointment , so just chill, and dont care about the outcome. Its just another natural, normal facet of life. Same with sex. But still make your sexual interest and intentions known; dont be too available or act too friendly, and all that good stuff. Let them chase a little more. Their frame should be, "does he like me?", and trying to meet your standards. You should also HAVE standards, and make sure they meet them. Not just gaming for the hell of it, or because youre a desperate dumbass.
