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This is a great thread and I look forward to hearing more of your approaches. I'm making a commitment to doing more myself but it's hard in an area where you really don't see that many women you even want to approach.

I did one recently you guys will laugh at though. I went to an art museum by myself and saw a pretty hot girl painting something she was looking at on the wall. So I went up behind her and said, "Hey, that's pretty good." Then she turned around, smiled real big obviously liking what she saw, and we chatted for a few minutes. But it went nowhere and she started messing with her things and losing interest in the conversation. But I said screw it and asked her if she wanted to get coffee, which came out of nowhere by the way. Her response was that there's a cafe upstairs and maybe she'd see me there. If that's not rejection I don't know what is! lol I'm learning though and will do more of these. I know with experience I'll quit thinking so much and get better.
 

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brett012 said:
but if you master your game before getting a hot body then you can reward yourself by getting a hot body and then you'll be like the sh!t :up:
Nah, I'm working on both at the same time. I firmly believe the better your body is the less game you need.
 

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ChrizZ said:
Nah, I'm working on both at the same time. I firmly believe the better your body is the less game you need.
If that were the case then I wouldn't be here looking for insight. lol

I know plenty of buff guys who women drool over, but once they open their mouths it all goes away. Don't get me wrong, it helps tremendously, but the other half of the equation has to be stronger.
 

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^ yea man. Best they go hand in hand. The approaching has to be stronger than how ur body will look.

Armstrong, its exactly what i'm doing. I'm doing both at the same time(but more to just get rid of the gut i got). Then once i know i can pull the hot babes w/o a hot body....then all things will fall into place :-D
 

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Ok, so I applied Juggler Method for the first time.

I was going to a computer lab to get some work done when I saw a cute Indian chick studying there. She was 25.

I sat down next to her and started talking to her:

Me: I like how everybody is browsing on Facebook. I feel like we are the only ones studying here!

Her: haha, yeah.

Me: What are you studying?

Her: I'm working on blablaba

Me: Oh, I like that. I'm studying blablabala. So what do you want to do after college then?

Her: A doctor.

Me: Oh, sexy and caring. That's what I kinda wanna do. I wanna be blablbalbala. So how does one become a doctor?

Her: blablalbala

Me: Cool, so you wanna move to california then? So do I! I love the people and the warm weather there!

Her: blablabla

Me: So do you have a bf here?

Her: No, he lives far away and the relationship is kinda complicated ( :mrgreen: )

Me: I understand. I could never be in a long distance relationship. I'd always be worried that my partner would be cheating on me.

Her: Oh, I never really thought about that...

Me: Yeah, I gotta get going, but I really enjoyed talking to you. I have never met a woman that has so much going on in her life. Why don't we have coffee on Saturday at three?

Her: Yeah, I'd like that.

Me: Good, write down your number here.


...I never thought it could be that easy. I'm a believer now that this stuff actually works...
 

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brett012 said:
great conversation! You're encouraging me to try the coffee thing, I've never done it.
The converstation was actually longer, but I forgot most of the stuff we talked about because we were vibing pretty well...
 

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brett012 said:
I know what you mean by forgetting stuff in the conversation. I also recently had a conversation with an older girl of another race. Buuut she had a bf which she mentioned a few times. Maybe I'll say something like "hey I know you're stuck behind bars because of your bf but if you want to chill some time let me know"
I would try to do the same thing I did.

Make it sound like there is always the possibility of him cheating on her.

That really gets them going and they seriously question if he is the right guy for them.
 

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YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I banged JLO :yes:

Well... not exactly her, but a hot 25 year old Puerto Rican chick with literally the hottest a$$ I've ever seen. Her face was average, but her a$$ was just amazing. PERFECT!

Here is how I did it:


I went to crash a Puerto Rican Dance.

Then I saw her. I was sitting down somewhere and she sat next to me.

Me: Commo estas?

Her: Muy bien blablabla. You speak Spanish?

Me: Un poquito...

Her: Oh really, where are you from?

Me: Guess!

Her: blablabla

We talked for about 20 minutes, I started putting my hand on her leg and left it there while I was talking the whole time.

Then I pretend like I just got a text message from a girl and smile. She gets curious and I'm just like, hey what's your number btw? (This #Close works 100% of the time btw. Credit Mehow!)

Her: It's blablabla

...turns out she is going to the same party as I am so I see her again that night at a houseparty. I then played the 5 questions game with her and the basic get to know you talk and bullsh!tted a lot. Here are the juicy parts:

Here is a routine I came up with. She melted in my hands when I said this cheesy bullsh!t that I picked up from movies. The stuff you see in those cheesy romantic movies really works!!!

Me: Yeah, I want to be a public speaker someday.

Her: Oh really.

Me: Yes, I actually have to give a speech on monday.:rolleyes:

Her: Oh really, about what?

Me: About love... yeah... love is actually a really interesting topic. Did you know that we only use 10% of our brain?

Her: Oh really?

Me: It's true. However I also believe that we only use 10% of our hearts.

Her: *Ohhh, I'm melting*

Me: See, there are two kinds of relationships in this world. First of all we have the couples that grow old and watch the grass grow. They lost all of their dreams and basically stick to each other out of desperation. Then we have the relationships that do work. The relationship in which both partners give each other space and trust each other. We are both very young and we don't want to live with the "what if's" when we grow old. It's important to live in the moment and enjoy it as much as possible.

Her: That was beatiful!

Me: See, life is not about the amount of breaths you take. It's about the moments that take your breath away. (AHAHAHA)

...Then I leaned in for the kiss and took her to a room and banged her in there. That was one great fvck!!!

I finally figured out what works for me. I just have to be the super smooth nice guy to get into a chicks panties...
 

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brett012 said:
Wow man, it's like you've had all this talent trapped inside you and you felt you should only unleash it all once you met a girl who was basically the sh!t.
Some key things you fellas can learn here:

Lie, lie, lie some more!

It's all about taking her on an emotional rollercoaster. Tell her a bunch of bs stories and then escalate, escalate and escalate!!!

Make her feel sad, happy, make her laugh, scare her, etc...
 

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You're doing great. I hope other guys too afraid to approach will be inspired.

I was going to advise dropping the DHV story, but you seem to have done that already. You also sometimes progress too quickly to the 'wanna come back to my place' and trigger their anti-slut defence. Say it with your eyes and wait until you are kissing or close before leading them to your lair.

You don't need a super-hot body for the super-hot girls, but they are more into a challenge than lesser women, so get them to chase you, and maybe play some jealousy routines. And remember to tease these girls the most, no one else dares too and they are gagging for it.

Good work.
 

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I really like the computer lab number close.....what is the juggler method? I see great conversation and vibing. Any tips on vibing?
 

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ChrizZ said:
Some key things you fellas can learn here:

Lie, lie, lie some more!

It's all about taking her on an emotional rollercoaster. Tell her a bunch of bs stories and then escalate, escalate and escalate!!!

Make her feel sad, happy, make her laugh, scare her, etc...
I think I thew up in my mouth a little when I read the 'its the moments that take your breath away' bs, lol. But fvck it, I will pretend to be a homosexual if it gets me pvssy so saying some sh!t I don't believe is nothing. I'm working on the emotional rollercoaster aspect coz I think that is were the majority of game works. Good stuff man
 

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ChrizZ said:
Some key things you fellas can learn here:

Lie, lie, lie some more!

It's all about taking her on an emotional rollercoaster. Tell her a bunch of bs stories and then escalate, escalate and escalate!!!

Make her feel sad, happy, make her laugh, scare her, etc...
Lying is all well and good until you start dating the girl and she realizes you live a normal life. Trust me
 

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ChrizZ said:
Me: Yeah, I gotta get going, but I really enjoyed talking to you. I have never met a woman that has so much going on in her life. Why don't we have coffee on Saturday at three?

Her: Yeah, I'd like that.


Me: Good, write down your number here.


...I never thought it could be that easy. I'm a believer now that this stuff actually works...
Not to be negative here, but that's a likely flake. Good approach though.
 

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Microphone Fiend said:
I think I thew up in my mouth a little when I read the 'its the moments that take your breath away' bs, lol. But fvck it, I will pretend to be a homosexual if it gets me pvssy so saying some sh!t I don't believe is nothing. I'm working on the emotional rollercoaster aspect coz I think that is were the majority of game works. Good stuff man
lol, I got that from the movie Hitch and I got some stuff from the movie wedding crashers. Delivery is crucial though...
 

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Went out tonight.

Danced with HB8 (DD's :D ). Her friend was into me and really wanted me to dance with her.

I danced and made out with her on the dance floor after a little bit. I also saw the hot polish chick that I was gaming a while ago, but that acted cold towards me.

Then I isolate the chick and get her number.

So, the club was closing then and suddenly the hot polish chick starts talking to me. (the jealousy plotline must have worked...)

I did lots of push pull with her and a good friend of mine, which is her AFC nice guy that wants to get in her pants drags her away. He's no competition though and I could number close her before he came and she was pretty enthusiastic about giving me her number...

I'll try to set up coffee dates with both of them and keep you guys updated...
 

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good 2 hear the improvements u be makin bruh! Tell me 1 thing, how much has Zenmack helped u out ?
 

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AznPlaya said:
good 2 hear the improvements u be makin bruh! Tell me 1 thing, how much has Zenmack helped u out ?
Supreme and the members on his forum taught me how to dress, the mindset I need to have, how to be dominant and a lot about energy...
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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